well truth is, some guys are different and some guys have things in common. as for me, a girl who likes it in the butt is not marriable because the butt is not meant for that. its really disgusting if you ask me. if you really really think about it. it is far from lady-like. I mean I love rough sex and giving it too her hard (at times) but if a girl ain't satisfied with normal sex and needs to have anal to get pleasure then I'm sorry you would not be the one for me. And here's my reason why. I have respect for ladies or at least I try. and for a girl to think anal shud be taken lightly and not degrading then she's far from respecting what making love was meant for. and she's far from respecting herself and her body. If you found the love of your life and I mean love of your life not some guy you just marry. but I mean that one anf then anal sex would be far from your thoughts. having sex with your true love would be the best sex you ever have because you would have no doubts, no fears and there would be nothing missing in the bedroom. (you wouldn't even care for rough sex. you would want passionate, caressin, romantic sweet love-makin) So just think about this for a minute. The one you marry shud be the one you love and the one you love shud be enough to satusfy your needs.
I sure as hell don't want to spend the rest of my life with nothing to look forward to sexually except what George Carlin used to call "man-on-top-get-it-over-with-quick" sex.
One of the reasons I don't practice pre-marital celibacy is that when I do find the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with, I want to have a reasonable idea of what I can expect sexually.
What a cruel joke it would be to wait until marriage only to find out that your spouse really doesn't like sex that much, has body image issues and doesn't want you to see them naked, wants nothing to do with oral sex, thinks anal is depraved & doggy-style is demeaning, is too self-conscious to get on top and is vehemently opposed to you masturbating or looking at p*rn?
Not for me.
I'll take the wild girl who's ready to settle down.
I would feel more secure entering a marriage with an "experienced" girl.
She knows what's out there, she knows me and she chooses to be with me.
Guys like girls who are open sexually and not prudish.That doesn't mean they *only* like promiscuous girls,but they like a girl who can speak her mind in bed,ask him questions and let him know what's up.
Does a guy liking anal make him less marriage material?
There's a particular hypocritical user who's about to answer.He thinks girls shouldn't be sexually active yet he should.Just ignore him.
Lol, yeah I know. He expects to be able to go around and spread his seed here there and everywhere and yet his wife to be a virgin who he can 'pop' himself...double standards..grrr.
My experience has been that boys love to be gently shown what they've been missing. It might be the first time a girl has taken it up the butt or given teasing, brief penetration. Maybe no girl ever dressed as a schoolgirl for him, or made love to him in her bikini. Boys are delighted to find their new girlfriend has no inhibitions about sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I don't like a foul mouthed girl. I like women to be lady like. I don't care about how many partners she's had. If she like anal...great! If she's a little overwheight...not a deal breaker.
But if she's a foul mouthed bitch...I don't like it.
So basically for the most part men like the 'lady in the streets, freak in the sheets' breed of woman?
I don't know what other men like. I just know what I like. My woman is...well, yes...a freak in bed (and so am I). she's a total lady in public (and I'm a total gentleman). We like sex...alot of it and all kinds of it.
THANK YOU for saying you don't know what other men like but you like.. so many people talking, not enough people speaking fir themselves:)
Lmao Sadly I recognised the quote, I'm actually a big fan of Sex And The City... Just because a girl is sexually open doesn't mean she isn't marriable. I don't think all of what is in sex and the city is viable. Some of it is of course, Ironically I don't think Carrie gives good relationship advice, she's more like a good question asker.
lol, so true. Most of the time when I watched it I sat there screaming at how stupid she was. And in fairness this quote was by Charlotte who is the most prudish of them all but I find myself worrying that by doing certain things, I'm creating the wrong impression in my boyfriend's mind.
I love Charlotte... she'd be the sort of girl I'd marry. If Carrie was that good she'd not have so many problems. :P Didn't like the films to be honest. If you think you're creating the wrong impression, just do what you're comfortable doing. You don't have to do everything he wants, and if you are thinking twice about doing it, then you probably don't feel comfortable doing it.
Liking Sex and the City and taking advice from that festering cesspool of idiocy would make a girl unmarriable to me
I don't take advice from it, I just know that to SOME men there are things that they would rather their wife didn't do. Thus the question. Plus I don't expect men to understand Sex and the City or watch it, it's just entertaining.
Sex and the City embodies everything that me and every guy I know hates about women. And if a girl is known for anything (as in, everyone knows her as 'that girl'), that means she's enough of a whore to have a reputation, which would make me uninterested except for shallow sex. Most guys want a girl who has more self-respect than to be like any character on that god forsaken show.
Her husband is laughing at the guy who said that.
I don't know whether you're saying what I think you might be saying but I take it up the butt and the boys LOVE it that way.
Why are all you euro girls such freaks? Nothin like you sexy wild freaks where I am. I went to europe last year and had the f*** fest of my life!
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