18 female virgin, hot or now?

I'm 18 years old and still a virgin, never did anything but hook up with guys. Is this a turn off or on? Do men think "ooh she's a good girl, I could go for that" or do they think "sh*t, I'm not getting laid, forget that"
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hooked up, meaning made out
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  • You're asking the wrong question, I think.

    The reason as to whether you are hot or not will come from your own beliefs about your virginity. That is, how you think about it. Do you want to lose your virginity but haven't had the chance to? Or are you really valuing it and waiting for the right guy?

    For guys under 21, I think it does't matter, as long as your reasons are your own and you're comfortable with yourself. Most guys under 21 will still date a girl as long as he likes her.

    Over 21, we, generally speaking, guys that have options, have a lot of experience. Personally, I like girls that have some experience. She knows how to move in bed, she's well dressed, she knows how to turn a guy on, etc. I don't have to teach these things to her all from scratch again.

    I broke up a girl who was 23 and I was her 2nd guy because she was super needy and also, yeah, she wasn't experienced in bed. But keep in mind I'm 27 so I expect the girls I'm dating to have SOME experience.

    I think the virginity adds points to a girl under 21, and over 21, the hotter she is, the more "ok" with it most guys are. This is a HUGE generalization but I think overall true.

    • I agreed with you on this one. I think it's all depend on age ranges. When she's under 21 no one care if she is experienced in bed or not because she is learning but if she is pass 21 every guys expect the girl to know how to please and turn on the guys. Guys over 21 are too impatient to teach because they are looking for pleasure only.

  • Depends on the guy. Some guys want easy lays and just want the sex. Others want a committed relationship. If you ask me, I'd just not care about what we think and go with how you feel. If you don't wanna have sex and you wanna be the good girl, go for it. There are indeed guys that will find you very attractive, just because of that alone. Naturally, players will hate the idea... at the same time... even they find it attractive because its like that forbidden fruit, and they want a shot to take your virginity. Its definitely not a turn off for a lot of guys, but either way, do what you feel, and be careful with how you choose to let go of your V-card.

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  • Ey I'm 19 and I'm also still a virgin, my boyfriend says he likes the fact that I havnt done anything... But it depends on what type of guy... Some guys will like it, some won't... And since your a virgin, it kind of gives a good girl image, which sort of means your not easy-and guys like a challenge so that might be a turn on, ha ha don't know if it makes sence but yeah...

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  • You've worded this very confusingly, considering "hooked up" means sex.

    Regardless of that I think I understand the question; personally, I don't care about the sexual history of girls with the exception of STI's and STD's... Or if they have a tendency to castrate their partner during the act. Those are always some nice things to know beforehand.

    • Update: In that case the majoity of my answer remains.

  • Hot but a burden..

  • I'm not turned off by any virgins at all, even 50 year old virgins. Least I know you're disease free, and I won't get a sore throat eating your pu$$y.

  • LOL...doesn't matter

  • Since I'm the same.. that be a major turn on. Plus your attractive so

  • hot.

  • I find it attractive. My kind of girl,