18 year old virgin?

[Anonymous]

so I'm 18 and have never had sex... I'm wondering if when I do have sex for the first time with someone will they think I'm weird?

[cassies94]

I couldn't believe that my friends were shock when I told them I'm still a virgin and I'm only 16 and so are my friends and they're not virgins. That shows you how far morals go when it comes to sex now a days. Some told me 2 lose it already but majority told me to wait but I can tell you this-all of them regretted who they lost it 2 and I was shocked about that. They have rumors flying around school about them while nobody can say anything about me because I never done anything with anybody. But guys think more highly of girls that are virgins and that ur special and not just a hit it and quit it or a hoe.

[Miss_Desirae]

I don't think so. I mean, they might be a bit surprised, seeing as how so many girls lose their virginity at such a young age lately, but I don't see how it would be a problem at all. You are still young after all. 18 isn't very old. If anyone does have a problem with it, their just dumb, and you should forget them.

[jgeers10]

Absolutely not. Lots of girls are virgins at 18. I personally think it's classy to save yourself as long as possible, it really weeds out the relationships that are all about the physical and gives you a deeper connection if the guy is willing to respect your choice not to have sex for whatever reason.

[mcastil3]

NO, the only person you have to be worried about is with coping with your own emotions after you have sex. Its a big decision and having sex with the right person can be a great experience. Definitely be into him and make sure he is into you as well. Don't have sex for the first time simply because you are curious, do it because you know you love him and he loves you. Talk about it as well to make sure he knows how comfortable you are. Most importantly make sure you use contraception both pill and condom if possible, but definitely a condom.

[myths]

Nah, it's your body and yours to do with what you will. Some people start really early, others feel better waiting (I personally hoped to wait for marriage, almost made it too). I personally would like to meet an older girl who still had hers, I mean you figure it would only make me feel more honored if we did engage in sex, kind of like she was saving herself all those long years for someone worthy. Don't be embarrassed, be proud.

[Nomadic]

People talk about sex a lot, so it might seem like everybody else is constantly having sex, but in reality lots of 18 year-olds are virgins. I was when I was 18.

[cjwright79]

If you think you are weird, then in all honesty, you might be just a little right. That said... just because you may be weird today, that doesn't mean you have to be weird tomorrow. You know?

[G-Daz]

What ever happened to morality...

[Anonymous]

Nope deal with it...