A girl says she is virgin but she didn't have tight vagina or no blood then does it mean she is virgin?

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  • Being tight and bleeding on the first time has nothing to do with being a virgin.

    Many girls don't bleed on their first time as the hymen had either been ruptured through sport or other types of activity. Some many have used a vibrator or dildo in the past for masturbation. Maybe too it could be the case that the penis isn't big enough.

    Pain or tightness, many girls that are virgin are quite prepared for it thus well relaxed for the first time. Some could naturally be less narrow than others. I've certainly been with a virgin girl that were less tight than many girls that were sexually experienced.

  • What are they teaching you guys in sex ed? Did they use the churiculum from the Red State South?

    Pain, tightness, and bleeding isn't an indication of a Virgin. Not having sex is. Vaginas come in different sizes as well. Also the "tightness", you describe. It's actually a common minconception. The tightness comes from a girl being tense and nervous. They're literally clicnched up during sex. So combine that with the fact vaginas come in different sizes, you get mixed results.

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  • Not all virgins are tight. It's a myth that a vagina gets loose depending on how much sex a person has. Vaginas are very elastic. The reason the vaginas of virgins are usually tight during their sexual debut is because they're usually nervous.
    And not all virgins bleed their first time.
    Overall I'm not sure why the girl would be lying to you.
    It's not that much of an expectation in 2016 that a woman be a virgin. (Whether that's a good or bad thing is up to you, lol.) It's not the old days when women would be stoned if they were found not to be virgins at their marriages.

  • Not all women bleed when they have sex; you see, the misconception is that penetration rips the hymen, but the truth is, is that many things can damage the hymen (from riding a bike, to karate, and other things) and that the entire hymen is not completely destroyed. It can stretch, tear slightly, etc. Some women will experience no bleeding, little pain, minimal bleeding, etc. Every woman is different.

  • Believe her. She's probably a virgin unless you find out explicitly that she has been having sex. Otherwise, no blood and loose vagina can certainly be found in a virgin. There are so many things that can cause a hymen to break early on in a girl's life and vaginal tightness is based on genetics and how many times a woman has given birth.

    • I don't get it. how many times a women given birth?

    • Yes, this likely doesn't apply to a girl your age so don't worry about it... but for older women, the physical stress of bearing children and giving birth weakens the pelvic floor muscles and may make a vagina seem looser than it was.

    • hahahahaha. suits the question

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  • No. Not everyone bleeds when they lose their virginity. And as for tightness, not only is that difficult to measure, but it also changes with arousal and isn't necessarily affected by how much sex a person has had. Also, someone who is a virgin might still have been fingered etc, so that could cause her hymen to stretch or break.

  • Not necessarily. I didn't bleed on my first time. And I can't say how tight I was since I have no idea lol (and my boyfriend was also a virgin, so he probably doesn't know the difference). But every girl's vagina is different. Some are just naturally more narrow, and some are naturally wider.

  • No. It doesn't mean she isn't a virgin. Many virgins break their hymens doing exercise or other physical activity while some don't have hymens at all. And so what if her vagina isn't tight? She might have experienced with toys before getting with you.

    www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women

  • Not all women bleed the first time. Was she your first too? If so, you don't know if she was tight or not, because you don't know what it normally feels like anyway.

  • It means nothing. The tightness of her vagina does not correlate to the amount of sex she has had

    • loosepussyland. tumblr. com proves you wrong. :D

    • mmm ya I'm sure a tumblr page is oh so factual. @TheHooptyMiata

    • To be fair, it supplies a lot of photographic evidence...

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  • A common misconception that women bleed and are really tight - There is no reason not to believe her because of this.

  • There are dozens of things that can cause a woman's hymen to break other than sex.

  • Lol. This a joke right?
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    My man, if you're so concerned about a lady's chastity. Ask her yourself. From what I know, they don't lie about it. Even if they do, its probably because they really really like you. Either way, people shouldn't be judgmental about it. So what if she isn't?

  • Maybe, maybe not. You can't know for sure.

    • yeah maybe or may not hahaha.:D

  • A hymen can break even by being hit hard, like falling on the cross bar of your bike. Or maybe using a tampon. Maybe she has masturbated with something.

    As far as tightness, I find skinny women looser than chubby women. Also if a woman masturbates and orgasms without anything in her pussy, it tightens up

  • She could be. My hymn was broken when i was younger from gymnastics so i didn't bleed my first time

  • are you a virgin? you sound like one...

  • Well, sounds like she is no longer a virgin either way so... mission accomplished.

  • Some girls don't have a hymen

    • what do u mean? :D

    • I always thought that made a difference?

    • The most common cause of bleeding after a girl's first sexual intercourse is the rupture of the hymen or corona

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  • You could be able to fit your head in there and it wouldn't matter. If she hasn't had sex she's a virgin

  • Yes, not all girls bleed and tightness is relatime- each person is different based on their body structure. But she may also be lying so if she's sketchy and you don't trust her she's probably lying

  • There doesn't have to be blood. It's a misconception. Being tight isn't about the amount of sex a girl has had. Different girls have different vaginas.

    • Is it possible?

    • If you believed she was a virgin before, no reason to think differently just because there was no blood/tightness.

  • Not necessarily, she could still have been a virgin. Some women have a looser vagina naturally and not everyone bleeds the first time.