A guy saying that sex will complicate things?

The other day I asked the guy I have been seeing if he wanted to come over and stay the night. He ignored my question and when I talked to him the next day he said that he didn't want to come over cause he didn't want to complicate things. He said that sex is supposed to make things better not make things worse. We have been in a semi relationship for a year now and it seems like lately all we do is misunderstand each other. Usually I fly off the handle cause I ask him if he is seeing someone else and he won't answer me. So I get crazy and keep asking him I know that I annoy him when I do that. He keeps telling me we need to talk to sit down face to face. When we tried to have this conversation it didn't work out cause I misunderstood where to meet him and he got frustrated with me and wouldn't talk. I care about him a lot and I want to believe that this will work out but if he doesn't even want to have sex I'm starting to think it won't and that will crush me. When a guy says sex will complicate things is it cause he doesn't want to be with you? What do I do ask him if we are done or do I just wait for him to talk to me? Is this the point where I need to move on and let him figure some stuff out? Does he really want to talk? Any information here will help. Good or bad I am so confused as to what to do. I know I have messed up a lot cause I keep misunderstanding what he says and I go crazy on him. If there is a chance to save this relationship I want to I don't want to mess it up by pressuring him to talk to me, but if he already has moved on I need to start moving on to.
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  • Sounds to me like that's a smart man!

    1. He is beginning to have feelings for you.

    2. He is realizing that sex with someone you don't love isn't that good of an idea.

    3. He's suddenly impotent.

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