A meaningless kiss?

[misio]

how can you kiss someone without feeling anything? like some guys do it like nothing...when I kiss someone I'm not interested in I kinda don't wanna do it... o.o but some people even though they don't like the person embrace them while they're kissing as if they do...are you like this? and if you are? how in the world do you do it?

[ThoroughFred]

There are two components to a good kiss, passion and chemistry. You can have one or both, or neither.

Guys are hard programmed to be excited when their bodies think they might be doing something sexual. So interest or not, the chemistry mode switches on, and they can start to turn up the heat by doing sensual things automatically like caressing you, squeezing you, whatever.

If two people feel very strong loving emotions for each other, passion factors in. It's like the joy of an amazing piece of cake, only in your heart. and you can't help but drop all defenses and enjoy the wonderful contact of another human being that loves you back. Its indescribable.

Then there are just kisses. two lips meet, some slobber is involved, they move around a little, then part. Its like a hand shake.

So basically any guy who gets mildly aroused by touching you, can fake a "hot" kiss. Even if they aren't interested in you, and have no real passion for you. simple really.

[misio]

Ah I see..

[oneway]

only kiss girls I like so I can't relate I don't know why you would kiss someone you don't care about but I'm old school idk

[lostxinxlove]

honestly out of all the guys I've kissed I've only felt that spark with one of them. Don't get me wrong I had feelings for the other guys or I wouldn't of kissed them but I truly think that you only get a spark with someone once in a great while. You should keep that person around beause that's something special

[NothingLastsForever]

I agree here. People do it because they can't really say no either..

[misio]

What do you mean?

[Butterfly_kisses09]

I would never kiss someone I didn't have feelings for. It would be terrible if the other person had feelings for me, that would just be leading them on.

[Anonymous]

Id never kiss a guy I didn't love. Kissing someone who you didn't like or have feelings for doesn't make sense.

[misio]

Thank you! o.o how do people do that? o.o

[Reginelli]

Yea when I kiss it means something. I'm like you, if I'm not feeling somebody then I don't really want to kiss them. Even if its not my girlfriend a kiss still means something to me. I wouldn't just kiss somebody just to be kissing them.