A question for the ladies who say bigger is better?

[gingmart]

First off I'm gonna try and not make this entirely about penis size even tho size is part of the question! there will be a few questions from this post. Right then ladies I understand why bigger can be better,as a man who is not ashamed to say that I'm below average, a larger penis can be better in sex because its a lot easier for a lot of sex positions( where as I've struggled with some). But if a man can bring a women to have multiple orgasms just from using his tongue or two fingers then does size really matter? How many ladies who say that size matters have actually had sex with a man who is considered small or below average? And for the ladies who haven't had sex with someone small or below average is this because you haven't had the opportunity yet or is because you've had sex with only larger ones therefore you assume that smaller ones would be no good? And if you met someone who is smaller,and you've only experienced larger ones but you liked him would you automatically write him off or would you give him a chance to prove himself?

[may04]

Well I don't pick who I sleep with based on penis size, I find out when we get to actually taking clothes off. I've been with one guy who was larger (not huge but above average) and in some aspects yes, it was better than when I was with a guy who was average (I've never been with anyone below average). Some positions were not fun at all with the larger fellow and we would have to modify to make things more comfortable. I would give a less than average guy a chance to show his skills, but if he couldn't live up to other aspects of sex after a few tries it would be hard to maintain a relationship (if there is one) and if its just for fun, I'd probably move on.

[Belgie]

The guys who are obsessed with d*** size, couldn't get past your first sentence... "I don't pick who I sleep with based on penis size, "

[Cantremember]

Just out of curiosity: I feel guys are usually burned for leaving a girl for sexual reasons. Do you think it is fair for both to move on web the sex isn't good?

[gingmart]

Yes its definitely fair to move on when neither are enjoying it

[may04]

it might be harsh but yes it's fair for either gender to end things if the sex isn't good. You have to be able to make each other happy.

[kheserthorpe]

cantremember - I agree, but guys need to get over this. Being a decent guy does NOT mean you take sex as a bonus, not a requirement in a relationship. A LOT of us were raised that way. Messed me up big time.

[Anonymous]

Yes I have orgasms with tongues and fingers but I like to feel"full and stretched" so if a small penis can give me that feeling then good.

I have not slept with a man with a small penis simply because of no opportunity.

I just assume a small penis will not give the full feeling that I crave.

If I liked him I would give him a chance of course. If I loved him I could even Mary him if he's giving me orgasms in other ways.

[gingmart]

Thanks for your honest reply, I know you said you like to feel full and stretched( I really respect your honesty and your own personal preferences) but if 2 fingers can make a women orgasm through stimulating her "G spot" would a penis of roughly the same lenght but thicker still do the same job aslong as it was stimulating that area?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah of course it could. I was not saying I wouldn't still love to receive and give orgasms from/to him and if I was really craving that feeling I could have it on my own or he could use a toy on me...

[Dee_gal]

well too big is not good, but small is worse. a 7-10 incher is what women just need. Cause when I get horny, I get the feeling someone dug a hole inside me filled with air and if it doesent get completely stuffed I'm gonna go insane

[gingmart]

Im not judging you by your personal preferences when it comes to size but your answer has confused me abit.u say that too big isn't good but 7- 10 inch is what women need but according to most penis size surveys any thing over 8 inch is big so a 10 incher would be very big. So what size are you refering to when you say too big? Also what would you consider small?

[Dee_gal]

i consider anything smaller than 7 small, call me a whore if you want but that's what it is. A bigger penis feels way better, yet of course that's my opinion.

[gingmart]

I wouldn't call you a whore.but how do you go about getting guys. I mean if you met someone and you really liked this person but he was a average 6 inch would you even go there?

[Dee_gal]

only if he gives great head and knows work it like a freakin machine

[gingmart]

Lol. So what would you do if that same person was smaller than 6 inch

[Dee_gal]

that wouldn't happen

[halilmeral]

i think ladies prefer big d*** i know it because they like my penis

[Anonymous]

bigger is better by far. I also prefer a bigger penis because I feel like I am being penetrated more. A small penis doesn't give me that effect

[Anonymous]

I didn't pick my boyfriends based on penis size, and I wouldn't dump one because of it. But bigger is better and yes it matters.

My first boyfriend was kinda below average , I didn't think anything of it then but my current boyfriend a bit above average and it's so much better.

It's just that the actualy having sex is the best part in my eyes. Better than oral and certainley fingering and it just feels better with some one who is bigger, sorry

[gingmart]

No need to apologize. Your been honest which is what I want.