A virgin with a FB/FWB? Hear me out.

So yes, I am a virgin. But I'm also a very sexual person and really at this point just want to have sex. I don't take sex too seriously, and by that I mean emotionally. (obviously I also don't treat it as nothing because I am 19 and have had plenty of opportunities to have sex and did not.) Of course I would want him to get tested and always use condoms/birth control etc etc. I've been lusting for this guy hard, and he apparently thinks I'm attractive too because he proposed that we be friends with benefits/f*** buddies. I really like this idea, I don't really care for a serious relationship right now, just want to have fun. I haven't been sexual with anyone(besides kissing) since a year ago when I found out I was being cheated on. This guy and I get along great, I know his family he's an awesome guy. So yeah. Me, a virgin, with a f***buddy? Is it too emotionally risky or does it depend on the girl. I want him so bad.
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  • I'm a 19 year old virgin too and I wouldn't reccommend it. Just for the simple fact that, you've waited over a decade lol your sexual firsts should be special, in my opinion. Not just giving into lust like most other people do. Plus you could get an STD and feel pretty stupid for getting an STD before you even have sex and even worse getting an STD from someone you don't even love who doesn't even care about you on a large scale. There are a lot of guys who love the idea of a virgin and being able to teach her. I just think that would be a very special, unqiue experience as an adult considering most girls start spreading their legs at 15 and younger. I mean...go for it. It's your body and your regret

  • It depends on the girl. I lost my virginity to a f*ck buddy. I was 17 and felt like a sexual person who had no experience and at that point just wanted to have sex. I didn't take sex too seriously either. I had sex with him a number of times without ever getting into a relationship. I had another f*** buddy after that. Then had my first relationship. I don't have any regrets, because I was ready to lose my virginity, and I didn't want to have a relationship at the time; I didn't want that emotional connection.

    Can it be emotionally risky? Yes. Does it depend on the people? Yes.

    Good luck.

    • Thanks for your input..it's refreshing. Just curious, did he know you were a virgin? Was he a virgin?

    • He knew I was a virgin, and he was not a virgin, but he wasn't terribly experienced either.

  • uh you've never had sex so how do you know you don't take sex too seriously? I feel that FWBs should be left for more experienced people. don't let your first time be so casual because you have no idea the emotions you'll go through until you actually have sex the first time. you never know how emotional you may or may not get until its done so its best to save that for a man who really loves you and is committed to you.

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  • Emotionally risky? You're not going to marry this guy, just get a little sweaty with him.

    You're overthinking this. Get on with it.

    • i like you.

    • Thanks!

  • I think it sounds pretty awesome :)

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