I can understand your situation well. I have recently decided it's time to try new things with my hubby, and at first we were a little nervous, but we have found that playtime in the sack has brought us closer together, and our sex life has never been better. Maybe your gal is experimenting. If she's been doing it for awhile, you should tell her you're jealous, and when do you get to play? If you both love each other (like we do) anything is possible. Have fun, talk about it, but above all, don't be embarrassed. Your best friend won't give up your secrets.
It would be a turn on.I mean,hey I'm up for experimenting ,i would just wonder why she didn't invite me to play;)
Just ask her if she'd be willing to maybe try you fingering her anally,or using your tongue or penetrating her with your penis,or if you'd like to receive anal penetration,just tell her.
Part of having a healthy sex life is communicating and experimenting
I think I would be very excited, and would want to see if she might be interested in having something else - tongue, fingers, etc. - replace that plug! Especially if she were thinking about me all day long while wearing it! Not every woman (or man) enjoys anal play, but I sure have had hours and hours of blissful fun with a few women who do! Lucky man!
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sounds like she wants to have some fun so go with the flow. have her txt or e-mail you what she is doing so ur kept up to date with it too...maybe try some anal with her too and see if she really likes that too...
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