Afraid to give my boyfriend a hand job or blow job in case I do it wrong or something?

We have been together over a year now and I love him so much I attempted giving him these things but to be honest didn't know if I and done it right... I just get so nervous around him I know I probably sound stupid but yeah this is the situation I've ad full on sex with the fella but yet oh I don't know I'm embarrassed in case he's thinking like what was that just want everything to be perfect for him
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him you're nervous and want to do well and ask for advice on what would feel good to him beforehand then give it a go! Also ask where it's most sensitive. When your done ask him what you can do better next time. I did that with my boyfriend and now I can please him very well

    And by the way it's really hard to do something that would feel bad, as long as you don't use your teeth or do something else that would hurt it. It may take a few tries to get better at it but it will feel good to him whatever you do and he will love you for trying and wanting to get better!

  • Again, talk to him, ask him to show you, ask him what he likes...i find that men are more honest with these things, if they don't like it, they'll tell you...

  • Just pay attention to when you're handjobing him that your hand doesn't slip out and punch yourself in the face.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Watch some p*rn to learn how it's done, or ask him to show you.

    Most guys will not be too concerned over an inexperienced girl.

    In fact, to see some of the puritanical conservative guys on here, you could do too good a job, and they'd dump you on the spot.

  • And the Question is...? Not into bjs...love hjs tho..if you are in need of tips you can message me..or you could reply and I could do it on here...hjs are actually pretty simple...I mean every 12 year-old boy figures it out...

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  • No such thing as "right", only the way he likes it. Ask him for feedback.

  • The only wrong way to do it is to not do it.