After I swallow...

Help me out guys. The guy that I'm seeing will not kiss me after I swallow. He always turns away and seems so grossed out by it, I always have to kiss him on the cheek. It drives me insane, it's like, okay so you find it insanely hot that I swallow but then you won't even go near my mouth because it's been in there? What's the deal and how do I get him to get over this. It puts me off, I love swallowing but I love kissing a little more. Can't a girl have both? Gosh.
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  • Don't be offended. My boyfriend has the same issue. He doesn't find you or your mouth gross, trust me, he just finds it freaky to taste himself. And the fact that it's gone (you swallowed) doesn't mean he can't taste it, he can (I tested that :D). Try to understand him, it's pretty logical in fact..

    So just quickly go brush your teeth - not like before you sleep, just a quick little brushing. Or if you don't have a toothbrush at his place, make sure he gets some mouth wash so you can use that.

  • Ok, so he wants you to blow him but when you try to kiss him he acts like it's disgusting? So if it's so disgusting and bothers him then why are you doing it? He can't have it both ways, he can't like what you are doing to him and think it's disgusting. I say make him pick one or the other, is it gross? Or isn't it? If he thinks it's gross don't do it and get kissed. If he decides it's not gross then he can get head and kiss you. Don't let him have his way on both.

  • my guy told me that he was afraid of me spitting it into his mouth afterwards because an old friend of his had that done to him. I told him that I wouldn't and I opened my mouth and showed him that I swallowed it all. he kisses me afterwards now, but we don't make out.

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  • some men have isues with that I would say go brush and then come back.. or if he goes down on you and wants to kisss you after just look at him likke o I can kiss you after you go down on me but you won't kiss me after I'm down on you .. then ask him why or stop doing that for him and tell him why that is all I can help you with

  • Next time you swallow, be sure and have a drink handy and wash it down with the drink. That could help.

    • That might help, I'll keep it in mind, thanks!

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  • Tell him you won't swallow anymore since he's being a little bitch about it

  • Guys don't want to know what they're own come tastes like (and neither do most girls). Just keep a glass of water by the bed, swish it around your mouth, and then go in for the kiss.

  • I've kissed a chick after she swallowed, it's like HIS stuff, so I don't know why there's a huge problem with that. but maybe like a drink after. YOU'RE doing him a favor too soo. just think about that. tell him you won't anymore if he won't kiss you once.

  • "No kiss, no bj. Your call."

    • Good advice. You take the cake!

    • Well said!

  • Men don't like to taste semen. I've also been with women that didn't want to kiss me right after I ate them out but I didn't take offense to it, I just figured they are normal women that don't like to taste vag

    • Women do like the taste of semen? I don't think it has anything to do with taste,

    • So you won't kiss a girl either after she swallows?

    • I'll kiss a girl if she gives me head but if I empty my ball juice in her mouth then I'll hold off on kissing her until she rinses with mouthwash

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  • The proper rate of exchange is he goes down on you, how does a kiss make it all even out, I must be missing something here.

    No, no its still coming up short is the BJ losing value like the dollar or something? Or are we talking like Canadian/Mexican(pesos) Bj's?

    Damn, maybe I just need to hook up with some younger stuff

    • Lol, funny.

  • wow! he should be so thankful he should beg you to kiss him!

    you need to keep your bitch on a tighter leash :DD

    • Hahahaha...well I don't consider him my bitch or I'd have other problems =P

  • that is absolutely terrible just dump him if he can't handle you swallowing then he doesn't deserve to kiss you haha

    • Haha that's too funny, I couldn't dump him over that. But thanks =)

  • try to have sex with him.

    and wen you are having sex then try it.

  • I wouldn't kiss my girl either so she tied me up grabbed my balls made me take the whole load, after that a little kiss wasn't so bad.

    • ...and you didn't hate her for doing that to you hahahah?

    • No, I found it a turn on and I am not squeemish anymore so we can do other things now, eg oral after sex

  • If he's a little freaked out, perhaps try doing what some porn stars do. Swallow then show him your empty mouth to show him that you swallowed all of it. If he's concerned your kisses will taste of cum, do what ggazelles said, and have a drink of water afterwards, or maybe have some breath spray handy.

  • Yeah but comon... a guy doesn't want his own come in his mouth.

    I do exactly the same as you have described... maybe just make it a happy medium and a peck on the lips with the lips closed.

  • i always will kiss her after she gives me a blowjob.

  • he needs to kiss you, if he can't you shouldn't do it.

  • Yeah when I was younger boys would be like that too. It would make me mad! Maybe carry some gum with you and hopefully he'll feel a little bit better? But if he wants to keep you around he is going to have to get over it! Because I am sure there are PLENTY of guys out there for you and treat you good and not even worry about the whole swallowing N kissing thing. Guys looooove when girls do that so they need to stop bitchin about kissin after! TELL HIM TO GROW UP AND BE A MAN!

    • I really don't want to have to straight up tell him that it drives me ntus but I guess as a last resort...

    • Well I didn't mean to be that straight forward...maybe just give it time and then he'll give in and kiss you or whatever. Haha Sorry I didn't word it correctly!

  • I think it's a young guy thing.

    I wouldn't care--as long as you had swallowed, and it wasn't in there any more!

    • Haha yeah being snowballed would suck!