Agree or Disagree? Since sex got easier to get, love got harder to find?

Since sex got easier to get, love got harder to find? Do you agree or disagree? why, why not? So... Since sex got easier to get love got harder to find? Agree disagree? why
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  • I disagree. Sex has gotten easier to get, as it's become less taboo to have sex before marriage or out of a relationship. However, love hasn't gotten more difficult. Love has always been difficult to find. Just as sex had been taboo, so had divorce, making married 'loving' couples stay together out of fear of becoming a social pariah. In some cases, other people got married because the situation called for it, and they eventually grew to love each other, just like is possible in arranged marriages, but that's not any easier nor any different then it is now.

    If anything, I think being sexually opened has helped to navigate the waters of love. Now if you have sex with someone, and they don't call after that, you know they were just in it for the sex and move on. No deep emotional attachment to get over.

    Before when sex was a prize to be won after a certain period of courtship, you have to try to decipher if that date, if the call, if the chocolates and dinners, handholding, etc actually meant an emotional attachment or if it was just going through the motions.

  • I agree, I think people have lost the idea of how good are relationiships. or they might just want pleasure so they don't mind making an effort and going through everything that takes to have a good relationship. pleasure is easier to get and in a one night stand or friends with benefits you don't have to spend time with a person, get into fights or have to compromise on stuff. you get exacty what you are looking for.

  • I agree..

    Since basically every guy (girls as well) out there can go out to a club/bar and hook-up with a random person they usually don't see the need to be in a serious relationship, commit or look for something long lasting/meaningful, sleeping around is just too much fun for most guys (I've noticed, imo.) well at least individuals around my age.

    • not all of us.. :l

    • "for most guys" I know not all guys want that.

    • I see, I never understood what all the rage is about.. I mean random sex doesn't fill the emotional needs does it? or do those people just not have emotional needs? lol

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  • I completely agree.. and not just with that argument as you have it. but in the expectations as well of men and women.

    Many of the youth and young adults today simply have no idea how a health relationship develops, or what it is like to truly care about someone completely..

    It hurts honestly.

    One of my first thoughts while reading this was "consequences."

    There used to be a lot of societal stigma against having sex outside of marriage, but as that slowly grew less common, it seems like the lasting, deep relationships also started to decline.

    It also makes finding someone who's willing to actually be in a committed relationship that much harder when you're in the teen/adolescent age, and also for others to believe when you say you aren't just looking for someone for what they'll do and actually love them for who they are...

    (sorry, emotional digression, I'll stop now. XP )

    • Haha no your good, keep going! I agree with what you said, a "relationship" nowadays (sounding like a old person lol) is just a hook up and "I LOVE YOU" is just a simple way of saying I'm trying to get in your pants, and "FOREVER" just means til I get what I want or til next couple weeks or next month

    • I know... It's so irritating 'cause it messes up when people actually want to settle into a real relationship, they don't know how and can't fully trust even themselves. =P

    • Yes!

  • Sex has always beene asier to get for girls I'm not sure for guys but love has gotten harder.

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  • I think so but maybe love is harder to realize but then again what do we know we're under 18

    • Haha. True. We don't realize the ones who loves us. And yea we are under 18 there is no love under 18 these days unheard of or maybe there is no love under 25 or maybe 30 who knows?

  • sex hasn't gotten easier for me to get, I'm 21 and a virgin, that has never been asked out. I think both are tough to find

  • disagree. it's as difficult as its always been.

    and if you're saying what I think you're saying, you're confusing lust with love

  • Well for me sex and love are nonexistant. At least you have one outta two:) I'm the only peraon in most of my social group whos never been kissed. Just sayin it could be worse:)

    • Oh no I'm a virgin too