Almost 18 and still a virgin.

Question

I'm going to be 18 in less that 3 months, and not in any relationship have I ever gone all the way. this is not for a lack of trying, or a desire not to, more on never having a place, or the time. I single at the moment, but I don't know, I feel pathetic sorta...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah... so?

Your virginity is special if you think about it... But when I think about it, most people can't seem to comprehend why its so special, or can care enough about it. After all... It's an impulsive society we live in! Do whatever makes you feel good without even worrying or considering the consequences! *rolls eyes*

I'm almost 20 and am still a virgin, in fact I take pride in it... I'll make a very lucky lady one day, very happy. She'll be left knowing I waited for her!

Yes, sexual desires are strong, yes I would like to have sex with a beautiful woman hypothetically if given the opportunity... But in reality, I feel that saving my virginity is the best option, and saves you from contracting STDs possibly, and from feeling regret.

Saving myself for the right woman, and going through years of no sex, while the desires are seemingly eating away at you, will make that first time all the more special. I would imagine it'd be one of the most incredible experiences, with the one woman I love. There'd be NO regret in that!

Just because everyone else seems to be doing it, doesn't mean you have to... If people make fun of you for being a virgin, that's their problem... They'll end up making a mistake one day, or ending up with some STD, or an overall feeling of unhappiness for some reason, most likely because they lived an impulsive life. They don't understand what love is... I'm sorry, but its the truth.

Embrace your virginity... Its a gift. A gift you could give to the one woman you end up with and to her only. I know I'd be much happier in the end... It just takes a little bit of deeper thinking to understand.

...I'll probably get some disagreements with this, but whatever. Like I said, people just can't seem to grasp the significance of it all.

oakley · Accepted Answer

so what? bud, don't sweat it! not all girls want a sex obsessed guy.. if you start to force it on them they'll just back away, you'll know when its gunna happen mate!

Katarina · Accepted Answer

You shouldn't feel pathetic at all. This may sound kind of dumb and I'll ramble a bit to you, but bare with me here. I'm only 16, and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I know...kissing and sex have a big difference...yeah...exactly! Here I am...being only 16 and not kissed anyone yet, and here there are 13 and 14  year olds out there, having full out sex! It's ridiculous what's going on out in society these days. To me, sex is being shown as something a guy has to do before he gets out of high school...which is sooo dumb. All I know is when I start to date after high school, I'm going to be going for the guys who have rarely had any sex  or are virgins (which will be really hard) but that's what I'm going for. So don't feel bad! I'm not a religious person at all, but I still have morals, and being an 18 year old virgin is something that should be normal now a days but isn't, so I hope I sorta helped in a way.

livelaughlove09 · Accepted Answer

I'm 18 and still a virgin... So what? If anybody says anything about it just say "listen, while you were out catching herpes and genital warts I was having good ole fashioned fun so stuff it." there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18. At least you know for sure you don't have any kids running around or any diseases taking over your body. Plus you can give it to that one special girl.