Always semi hard?

[pwnarkid1]

Ok this is odd... But I recently have gotten close to a girl and we are dating now.. And like whenever we get close to each other like if we are laying on a bed playing around with each other I kinda get a hard on... And like when she sits on my lap.. Or like I don't know its weird... And like when I'm holding her close to me and kissing her I kind of... Is there something I can do or say idfk help haha

[ilovelegs]

You're suppose to get turned on like that when you're that close to a girl you really like, especially when touching, holding her close or kissing . There'd be something wrong if you didn't. I wouldn't make a big deal out of that nor would I say anything to her unless she asks. She'll probably be flattered when she notices it. You're definitely NOT the only one. lol! You're attracted to her and that's great. Unless she's concentrating on you down there she might not even realize what's happening. When the time comes and she does say something about that or just giggles, etc., just say something like,... "I've been wondering about that myself and how to deal with it." I'm sure you'll both just laugh then. Whatever is said after that will come natural, trust me. It's nothing to be nervous about... or embarrassed.

[jtbsoon2b]

The same thing happens when I'm with my gf. It just shows that you are extremely attracted to her that's all.

I said something to my girlfriend along the line of, I know that you have noticed something whenever we are close together but I'm sorry it just happens because I'm so attracted to you.

And then we both had a little laugh.

I only said that because I knew that she had noticed and because I wouldn't try to force her to do anything.

[katiekewl]

When women do notice, they take it for the compliment it is. If you ever notice a women who backs off after noticing, then make your excuses. But, she will only back off if she's confused about how to handle the situation... for goodness sake she's playing with you on a bed. Haha. Have fun!

[yeahyeahc]

it's definitely flattering to a girl, not embarrassing. it actually turns me on when I notice because I feel more confident and more likely to let something happen between us...

[AZ1981]

I guess I don't understand what the problem is... are you feeling awkward about it?

[AZ1981]

Don't worry about it! She's into you, you're getting close and intimate...it's what's supposed to happen, lol! If you start acting weird then yes, she'll feel weird about it. If you feel like things are becoming a little too intense & you don't want to go further just tell her you need a breather, & she's a little too hot for you. She'll be flattered! The only thing scary about a hard on is the fear that he will push for something you're not ready for. Take that fear away & it's no problem

[Vangor3d]

Having physical contact with a girl you are attracted to is always going to produce some sort of reaction. Congratulations, you're normal. Usually, they know and unless they are repulsed by you, they don't care.

The trick is going to be letting her know subtly so she doesn't hurt you. The least embarrassing way would probably be to play it off as funny, you know, "Well, I guess I'm not standing up anytime soon," or something of that nature. Most girls will understand the code.

[tolovewithoutyou]

I wouldn't have been freaked out, more flattered than anything. I wouldn't worry about it :]

[jacquesvol]

ODD? :-O

If it didn't happen she would have a good reason to be very worried!

You can tell it, but she sure already knows it :-D

[jacquesvol]

Or, if she plays at being prudish, after sitting on our lap and frolicking on a bed with you, tell her she's at fault, she caused it and you're 100% innocent :D (you can tell her how she can help you to get rid of that coke bottle in your pocket)

[AK-47CountryGurl]

Do u get a chubby just by looking at her? Yes, ya do huh. Lol. You're in love my dear. Don't be embarrassed. It's natural. For me it would be assuring to notice that my feelings for you was the same as yours for me. It makes a girl feel sexy and desirable. Treasured that you don't press the issue. As a respect thing though I feel as if she should make the first move on intercourse. But I have had some unnerving, unwanted experiences. ... Talk about the physical beforehand to make sure you are on the same page from likes curiosity, experience if any expectations, Birth control. And FYI the pull-up method is a joke. and what 2do if an unplanned pregnancy does happen. If these are things you can't discuss then your relationship is not ready for that level.

[Anonymous]

haha I get where your coming from. To be honest, I would just jack off a couple of times before you hang out with her. It just calms the hormones and makes you less prone to getting a hard on easy

[Anonymous]

Haha, same happens to me man. Just can't help it most of the time. Try to think of something else... something unarousing, like... your parents or something :p Don't be too worried about it though. Most of the time girls don't mind, and some even find it a turn on knowing they have that effect on you :)