I don't like it either. Not the way a lot of people do it. I think some people are under the impression that kissing with tongue means sticking it down the other person's throat, and salivating profusely, hahah. That feels gross and is a pretty big turn off for me. I also notice that a lot of guys completely leave lips out of the equation when it comes to kissing with tongue. It's like WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO DO? WHAT KIND OF KISS IS THIS? =P
I love kissing with tongue when the person knows how to do it in a pleasurable way. I like the playful exchange of tongues, and tongue-to-tongue contact between and slightly into each other's mouths, but I don't like a guy's whole tongue like plundering my mouth for hidden treasure or something, haha, or vice versa. I think a good kiss involves a few different elements though. Lips are THE most important, maybe some suction here and there, a bit of tongue when appropriate, and even some nibbling with the teeth. The breath thing is a given.1 0 0 1the first time a guy kissed me, I had just thrown up it was a horrible experience & I hated it for about 3 more times & then I fell in love & the kissing is pretty cool..course I've never had a no tongue kiss, that might be nice lol*
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You are not alone, and you are not weird. I have never enjoyed the feeling of someone else's tongue in my mouth. It's not an easy thing to tell the other person, though. I would be afraid of them taking it personally, like "he means he doesn't want to French-kiss ME." And it would be even more awkward to wait until after and then ask them, "wait, did you really enjoy that? 'Cause I thought it was gross."
0 0 0 0some girls like it and some done, depends on the mood really, most of the time with most girls they don't like it, they like the tender but firm kiss snogging without tongue, its because of the feminine emotional side to them,
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1 6You are not alone! Further exemplifying this reality is that the when interviewed, porn stars often say that they will do anything (and that means anything) on camera except french kiss! The reasoning? Swapping tongues and saliva is simply too intimate, personal, and sometimes gross. I'm big on maybe a very brief swab with the tip of my tongue during a make-out but please, let's not be tongue wresting here people! ;)
0 0 1 0Awesome I'm not alone lol
I think it needs done right to be fun. Its also only to be used once in awhile in certain situations. In everyday kissing though or with people who have no idea what their doing should be banned.
0 0 0 0I hope you're telling your partners beforehand.
0 0 0 0i like it . . . but when it's done well and sparingly. someone shoving their tongue in yer mouth and waggling it around is about as bad as it gets!
1 0 0 0You are not alone, but it is kinda weird. And maybe a little sad. I like tongue.
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