Some girls are more sensitive than others. Some feel very little from insertions, and some really get where they need to go with insertions. Some girls need to play with their clit to get off, some girls are so sensitive their clit can not be touched.
I would suggest 3 things:
1) focus on your clit. once you've gotten turned on, insertions might feel better, but you likely need to focus on your clit to get off
2) foreplay. Yeah, foreplay with masturbation sounds weird, I know, but you need to get yourself worked up. Guys tend to be ready to go once hard. Girls? Not so much. You're gender is blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms, and really enjoy yourselves. The downside is that it takes the average girl much more to get her going than the average guy
3) be more careful with question titles. "I can't get off by only fingering" conveys what you mean better, in my opinion. The way you said it sounds almost like you're saying you need someone there with you while you're fingering in order to get off :-p
The key to your orgasm is your clitoris. Go to a tube site like Xhamster, Xvideos or Xtube and key in "amateur female masturbation". You will be surprised at how uniform they will be. All external (of the labia) and (later) exposed clitoris stimulation. You have to get your technique right.
I think there's a website you should read. It's possible you aren't properly aroused, you need to be aroused, to get the good sensation from stimulating your g-spot. Which is why we don't get an orgasm during Paps or whatever.
It's also possible you may not have a very big g-spot, if at all, and that's alright too. I'd say give this a read. I looked it up when my current boyfriend said I have a big g-spot and I didn't really know what that meant so I was curious because let's face it, we don't all study biology and just KNOW what it's like down there.
heretical. com/miscella/g-spots. html
That would suck if that's the case :(
You're not alone. Most people need other stimulation before during and after in order to have any real fun. Just going in and out is boring. Get some naughty thoughts in your head the next time you play with yourself. Think about what someone would do to you, or what you would do to them. Have fun
Nah. You've got to stimulate your clitoris. I find its much easier to get off by myself using toys that just with fingers. Get one of those vibratory that has the clit piece that works your clit while the larger shaft is inside you.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No, because usually to add to that you need a clitoral stimulation aswell and thats perfectly normal.
Do all women stimulate their clits during sex?
Most usually yes! Thats why both works
You're normal. Most women need clit stimulation to orgasm. I can only orgasm when my husband vigorously licks my clit with his tongue. I'm not able to reach it without that strong mental and physical stimulation.
70% of women can't orgasm from penetration alone, let alone with just fingers. That's completely normal.
Does it still feel somewhat pleasurable to get penetrated even if you can't get off?
I have no clue as I've not experienced it yet myself, but I imagine so.
Try rubbing around your clitorous; the little button at the top of your vagina. Some women don't get much out of fingering the hole. That is where toys and a penis come into play, literally, by going in deep and stretching the walls some and getting all those little sensory nerves to sing.
preaching to the choir, sis lol. fingering does nothing for me alone.
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