Am I tight enough?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I am 20 years old and a virgin, but have explored with masturbation by myself. Since I have played with toys (fairly small in circumference, can easily fit inside a toilet paper tube with room all the way around it) I'm wondering if I will be 'loose' when I actually have sex. I have pretty small fingers, only about a size 6.5-7 in rings, and can comfortable fit about 2 of them. If I only insert one I can definitely feel my pelvic floor muscles squeezing it but it's not 'super tight'. When I do finally have sex with my boyfriend will I still be "virgin tight" or will he not find it pleasurable?

[SylviaBelle]

You can have sex with huge guys and you'll still feel tight, the vagina is meant to have natural elasticity, it doesn't permanently get bigger unless it sustains an injury like a particularly traumatic childbirth. What does make it tighter or looser is how much you use your kegel muscles. Strong kegel muscles make the vagina feel tighter. You can excercise them easily on your own (it's the muscle that helps you stop peeing, if you don't know what it is, that's the muscle you would tighten over and over again to exercise it if you're concerned) or you can actually buy ben was at any sex shop. Ask a friend to go with you if you're shy, or order them online. They're just tiny weighted marbles that you put inside and it forces you to keep those muscles clenched. I use them all the time, I am far from a virgin but it keeps it super tight and it has the added bonus of making your orgasms much more satisfying because those muscles are the same ones that contract when you orgasm.

[ohale]

The cool thing about the vagina is that it is a muscle and as such it can retract back to it's original shape. You should be fine, using toys isn't an issue and you shouldn't be "tight" when you're having sex anyway, the vagina consists of tightly folded muscle tissue and because of this it is very elastic and it loosens when aroused. Biologically, this makes perfect sense. An extremely tight vaginal opening would inevitably impede intercourse and make it generally unpleasant, so the vaginal muscles expand and change from something resembling a tight fist to a fist loose enough to insert a finger or two which makes sex/masturbation a bit less difficult.

Hope that helps! Masturbation is a healthy activity and has loads of benefits! I would def encourage you to read up on it!

[jomu0136536]

U make my head hurt... And not the good one

[ohale]

@jomu0136536 I'm sorry that you feel the way that you do

[jomu0136536]

Its not your fault... Its probly cuz im drinking 😷

[ohale]

@jomu0136536 sharing is caring!

[jomu0136536]

I might care too much

[jomu0136536]

Especially when drinking

[ohale]

@jomu0136536 lol, I understand

[Anonymous]

The whole tightness debate is a myth, really. The vagina shrinks back to its normal size after it has been stretched out. After having a baby your vagina does not stay like that. The vagina is very elastic. I have had a baby and if I insert one finger there is no looseness, my finger is completely surrounded. What you can do is strength kegel muscles - basically just daily do a few squeezes - and all good. You have nothing to worry about.

[hifromkai]

Your vagina will expand and contract according to how aroused you are so it's an invalid question

Also it depends on the guy as well but in a nut shell you're always gonna be tight enough on matter what you stick in there because it'll always shrink back to normal so unless you get tearing it won't really matter

[jomu0136536]

Really a toilet paper roll? I can't even fit in one of those... I just tried... So my answer is yes

[Asker]

I feel like you must be larger than average then!

[jomu0136536]

I don't know... I havnt seen many penises... But it gets the job done 😉...

[jomu0136536]

But women who have had kids are still "tight enough" so dont sweat it

[alfonsosloan45]

That's a bold faced lie.

[jomu0136536]

@alfonsosloan45 lol... Whats the oldest women u slept with?

[jomu0136536]

My point is... I've slept with women who have had two kids.. And they were fine to me.. Granted I've only had about 6 partners... can't say there was a huge difference between the tightest and loosest... But i have never been with a virgin

[ichot]

sigh... toilet paper rolls can vary between manufactures.. There is no "STANDARD OF American TOILET PAPER ROLLS" that governs it.. Why people use it as a standard is beyond comprehension. Use a damn ruler.

[Asker]

@ichot Ok fine, it's a 1" diameter

[jomu0136536]

Ur fine girl... Dont worry!!! 😉... I dont think he's sees the post tho

[JuicyBrain]

It doesn't have to be virgin. Even vaginas who had kids are "tight enough" to have sex you know?

[Vehii]

Your vaginas doesn't get "loose", just like your legs won't go "floppy" when you do the splits a lot.

[psychomonkey]

Virgin tight? I guess so...

[Not_A_Perv]

You are overthinking it. You are perfectly normal down there.
Technically, pelvic floor muscles or Kegel muscles do loosen up a bit with growing age and frequent copulation, but the change is for the better.

[jordan90]

Don't worry, you'll be fine. Even girls who have been fisted can still enjoy the average penis.

[SlightlyCrazy]

You make laugh, you'll be fine don't worry. You will feel great :)

[Joelmiller]

He will love it your fine :)

[thisdudejimmy]

Ughhh that doesn't sound too good honestly. . maybe stop using these toys... or go smaller until your vagina adjusts to the new smaller size then should feel more intense for both of you

[Benj19]

Dont worry, you'll be tight enough

[jace117]

You should be fine, if you want to feel tight for him just don't stretch yourself out a day or two before

[baldblls2]

Your pussy should be fine

[Anonymous]

you are not a virgin...

[Asker]

Virginity is the construct of actually having sexual relations with another person.

[Anonymous]

If I squish them together, I can fit four fingers in a hole that my penis won't fit into.

My hands are bigger than yours.

You'll be tight enough. And then some.

[Anonymous]

your vagina is flexible, it goes back to its normal tightness. No need to worry.

[Anonymous]

It's best to save sex for marriage... and I had never heard about "virgin tight". Everyone has their own history and there's no use worrying about something like this when there are much more interesting things to explore about a person.

[Anonymous]

You will be fine. Almost all girls masturbate before they lose their virginity. You will be a typical virgin.