Am I really "too big for anal" as girls claim?

[Anonymous]

I think they are saying that just to get out of the act that they bring up and claim to enjoy. No idea how that makes any sense, but it is my only explanation. I don't really think I am too big at all, but no girl will let me do that because they say I am too big for it even when they claim to really enjoy it when they have been drinking. Before any ladies ask, it is about 7 and a half inches with an upward curve (so prob 8 if it was straight), and probably right around 5 and 3/4 to 6 inches of girth depending on how excited I am, ha ha. Tell me girls, is this all just bullsh*t to avoid anal? I am absolutely fine with that because I am not really into it anyway, but it is weird for the girls who hit it to bring that idea up only to then say I am too big. Are they trying to just boost my ego?

[lproxsme]

well I don't know if you're too big. These girls have been drinking and probably want to seem adventurous if you're attractive. Some of them might like it but have been with small guys. Others might be afraid and decide against it. I assume you have seen p*rn stars take it in the ass and you know those guys are big so it isn't impossible. If you're asking someone to hook up with you and have anal she will probably decline because it could really hurt. it is best to do it with someone you are dating or is willing to spend the time to do it. Anal isn't a hey wanna do it thing. You have to prep and it is a slow process for her to stretch her a**hole to get you in. Most girls aren't going to want to do that for a hook-up.

[Asker]

I totally agree but I am not the one bringing it up, which is why I think the whole thing is weird.

[lproxsme]

true

[sockz]

Big yes. But no way is that too big. You're about the same size as one of my sex toys. It fits. I've dated girls who also had no issue with that size. Yes, some girls (particularly those who have only tried anal once or twice) can be unprepared for a man of your proportions. But if she wants to try then give it a shot. Just use lubricant and go slow at first, and you'll be fine.

[Asker]

They claim they have done anal before with past boyfriends, but what scares them is how much more girth I have. I agree with you though that they could take it.

[sockz]

Yeah its not really girth that causes pain but friction. Yes, if you have something that's a tighter fit then it will create more friction. Hence lubricant as the solution. You don't even really need to overdue it on the stuff either, because some brands can be irritating if used in excess and that in itself can cause pain (esp. scented/flavoured kinds). Its better to apply smaller amounts every now and again, rather than dump half the bottle there all at once.

[Asker]

Do you like anal with guys or just toys? Thanks for the tips!

[Anonymous]

Ya anal does not feel good for me so ide avoid it too. But I would also be truthful with you about it. I don't know if your too big or not.

[Anonymous]

Hmm maybe. I never want to do anal so I take comfort that your 6 inches supposedly is too big because I will definitely be. That's a relief to me, if it's true that is.

[Asker]

Don't be modest. I am sure you have taken plenty big back there!

[dolfan13]

if everyone is telling you that than it might be true.

[Anonymous]

You should be proud of yourself.

[Asker]

I am making the title of this into a bumper sticker for my car

[Anonymous]

Any penis size is too big for anal for me so I think its true since you are on the larger side.

[Asker]

Any size is too big? Now that isn't true!