Am I a sex addict or is that just normal?

How many guys/girls you slept with? and when is it too much? i lost my virginity at 18 and now I'm 22 since then I've slept with 48 different girls. Does that make me a sex addict ? and yes I always use a condom
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  • An addiction really isn't about the number of people you have sex with or even how often you have sex.

    It would be an addiction if you allow sex to interfere with your social life and responsibilities (friends, family, school/work, etc.); you continually feel the need to increase in the intensity, frequency, or risk of sexual behavior in order to feel satisfied; you engage in sexual behavior that is risky to your health or that you regret afterward (i.e. do it without thinking); you persistently want to reduce, stop, or control your sexual behaviour, or you make attempts to, but fail, etc.

    • well so far I skipped school for sex, I left work for sex, I had sex in very public places making it risky for my well being. I do regret some girls I slept with.

    • Well, I mean, I don't think skipping school or leaving work for sex on the sparse occasion, or enjoying public sex, or regretting some of the people you sleep with is abnormal.. But like, do you skip school or work for sex often, to the point where its affecting your performance? Or completely without regard to the fact that it might affect these things negatively? Like, it's not just an occasional thing; or you would skip school when you had a final exam to have sex, etc.

    • actually no I won't skip or leave work to the point where it affects me negatively you're right

  • I've slept with one who was a long term boyfriend, I thought I'd be with him forever but things turned very bad when we were coming up to a year. I've got a new boyfriend of four months now and we haven't had sex yet, he's a virgin and I want to take it slow. I regret my first and I don't want to regret my second. I don't want to had sex with many guys in my life.

  • wow... within 4 years 48 different girls... but I think you are an addict if you have the urge to have sex and that you get horny all the time or VERY often ... it's a condition which is usually not fun at all for a sex addict.

    But good that you use a condom! ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • The number of different girls isn't important, how frequently you have sex is what's important. You could have only slept with 1 girl over those 4 years but if you had sex twice a day every day, then yeah you would be a sex addict.

    • well a lot of those girls became booty calls although some weeks I don't even have sex but other weeks I'll have sex pretty much everyday and some days would be twice

  • Its a pretty good stat. Normal for this day and age. One new girl every month. So long as it doesn't affect your work and personal life, knock yourself out.

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  • Im 19 in 3 months, I lost my virginity at 14 and have slept with 13. I regret almost all of them..

    • and I really should have put this as anonymous. f***. don't judge meeeee D:

    • You're as anonymous as you'll ever be for us. If you regret it, it's your problem, not ours.

    • Well its probably a good thing I never said it was your problem then, that could have been awkward -_-

  • That's a lot of girls to sleep with in four years...one per month. Definitely not attractive. It doesn't necessarily make you a sex addict though.

  • its not normal. its called being lucky.

  • I'm somewhat surprised that the Trojan Co hasn't offered you stock in the company! lol

    • lol

  • So on average, one a month--a fair clip, about where I was at that age. Just realize that if you keep it up you'll be in the triple digits by 25, if you care about such things.

    • that used to be my goal but I really feel like a slut when I think about it

    • You're halfway there, why is it getting to you now? I'll warn you, though, it starts to get real mechanical once you're doing girls merely to run up the score. If you're ever tempted to quit the race and actually enjoy your sex life, no one would blame you.

    • at first I did it for the numbers because as guys we ALL know that usually the more girls you sleep with the more a girl would really want to be with you and I thought I lost my virginity a bit late and being around my brother and couzins who were messing with girls left and right including my father I guess I didn't have the right people to look up to

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