Am I too horny for him?

They guy I'm seeing and I only see each other once every two or three weeks. By that time, I'm extremely horny and I want to have sex like 3 or 4 times that night. He made a comment the last time I saw him that I'm always horny, because I wanted to have sex again and he didn't. Is this a bad thing? I'm starting to think I'm a turn off to him if I'm too horny. I don't want to push him away without knowing it
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I had the same issue with a boyfriend once. We only saw each other once a week and I wanted sex at least once when we saw each other and he thought that was too much. Two guys have dumped me for wanting too much sex.

    I guess it IS a turn off for some guys. Crazy thing is, all I ever heard was "your boyfriend is so lucky" - so it really is just a personal preference. Maybe try talking to him about it.

    You guys don't see each other very often, he'd HAVE to expect you'd be horny when you finally are together.

  • My boyfriend is like that sometimes too. He calls me a nymph, which I hate. But he also thinks its cute thankfully. But when I feel like I am coming on to him too much the next time we hangout and it seems like he wants to have sex I refuse. . . But I usually cave after about 15 min of him trying to get me naked lol. sometimes you have to make him work for it or at least pretend too.

  • thats a good thing !

    but maybe sometimes, you just need to control it!

    u know some girls are borring for men because they just lazy for sex! one or 2 times is enough for them

    it is just about how you can control and make situation good, and make him in a good mood!;)

    good luck!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Depends on him.

    Personally, I doubt I'd need to get off a fourth time. But I'd be pleased that you wanted to again and again. If you always liked a lot of sex, I might try to not orgasm every time, only orgasm at the end, that way we could have more sex while my drive would stay high till the end.

    My impression though is that while my sex drive may be middle of the road, my willingness to accommodate a much higher drive in a partner is way above average.

  • He can't handle you.

    There are lots of men who can keep up with you and NEVER say you can't find one. That statement makes women come off as bitches. Why? Because women just won't give enough men the opportunity to prove themselves, too picky.

    If he's not up for it anymore, find someone else. Depending on where you live, I can travel! OH DO TRY ME! If not, someone else will

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  • It's clear that you have a much bigger sex drive then he does. Maybe find a few ways to get him in the mood or turn him on to help spice things up, but yes, if you are always initiating then it may become a turn off to some men.

  • yes, it's a bit of a turn off when your dating a "sex kitten" is what I call them.

  • I guess your guy doesn't like sex all that much. Happens.

    I mean some dudes are extremely horny, some aren't. I've got fluctuations, sometimes I'm content with just once, and then I feel relaxed and in a cuddly mood; other times I can go up to 6-7 times in a day (but then my d*** will feel numb ^^). To me 3-4 times in one night after not having sex for a week is pretty much ground zero, only goes up from there lol. But some dudes just don't like all that much sex.

  • Many guys can't have sex more than once or twice in a night. He may want to, but just isn't physic,ally capable of rising to the occasion. I had a girlfriend who was like you and used to complain about the guy she was with before me. He was way bigger than me, but could never do it more than once which drove her nuts. Guess like they say, its what you do with it!