he needs to be gentle. use plenty of lube and relax as much as you can.
one thing to remember is that the rectum is just one membrane which can easily be bruised and torn. The vagina has three layers; an innermost membrane, a layer of muscle, and a layer of fibrous tissue and some fatty padding. The vagina was designed for sex and can handle rough stuff just fine. Even if the first layer is bruised or torn, the other two layers still prevent foreign material from getting in and causing infections. Once the rectum is torn, however, that's it. It opens a path for infection straight into your abdominal cavity and bloodstream.
This is consequently the reason why the AIDS epidemic hit the gay community so much harder than the straight.0 0 0 0O please don't feel strange! Those 'tasks" can bring as much joy to the giver as receiver. There are many pheremones -- sex hormones --- in the female anal area. Yes, we get high off your ass hole. Try to just enjoy it. Breathe, relax, and try not to clench. Women come that way all the time, and once you start doing that, it is all downhill (or up the highway).
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Lots of anal play before insertion might help relax you and prepare you better. But it's really not all that great in my opinion. I think it just makes me feel like I need to take a big sh*t while he's in there, not very pleasurable. But some girls live it and end up cumming from it so who knows, you might be like that. Just take it slow and make sure you use lots of lube. I also recommend taking a laxative if you can earlier on in the day to clear yourself out, or otherwise it can get kinda nasty lol.
0 2 0 0I can understand why you say this: "I think it just makes me feel like I need to take a big sh*t while he's in there, not very pleasurable." But did you know that if you push out while you feel that -- instead of clench off which is the first instinct -- it totally changes the feeling of ass fucking and can help you cum hard? When you clench off, you stop you're own orgasm. You should be open enough that when you feel that feeling, you can tell him. Or have a pre-determined single like an eye wink from you. Then he tells you to PUSH -- and keeps his dick deep in ass. You will be amazed. I mean, when you sit down to sh*t, you don't clench as you try to go yes? That makes no sense. You PUSH to open. Same with anal. Only the in and out changes to orgasmic feeling quicky.
Personally I'm not having anal sex with any guy regardless of the size of his penis! There is another hole very close that is designed for that penis and that is where it goes.
1 2 0 3How big is he? My guy is 8" and it's not that bad after you get in to it. You just have to start off slow and use toys first. It gives the best orgasms too
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0 5Watch some Rocco Siffredi films to see what is possible. You don't have to go from o to 100 in a day. Check out puckerup.com, anal advisor, for some tips.
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Play with your butt for a week or so beforehand. Longer if you want but get use to the sensation by yourself. Get a dildo-whatever. But play with it before he does so you know what to expect. He is going to want to f*** it so you need to be ready for that.
After your accostom to the feeling. I've found that doggy style is best for initial entry. Here is what we do: I finger her ass for a bit while she sucks my d*** getting into the mood. Get it all lubed up and in position behind her then I stay still and let her put it in. Ill grab or rub her hips/cheeks but absolutly no thrusting movement from me. She backs up onto it slowly at her pace.
Other starting out positions makes the movement on the guys end and we like to thrust and that at the beginning will be very uncomfortable. She can come doggystyle from anal. Or missionary. I think she likes it missionary anal for her cumming.0 0 0 0slowly putting it in one cm at a time
0 0 0 0Let him go at it but keep your hand as a spacer between him and your butt hole. (It took me awhile to think how to tastefully type that and there is no way!) So basically you have your hand wrapped around his d*** and guide it to your hopefully already lubed butt and let him in but you keep your hand around his d*** so that when he thrusts only his tip is in and your hand is the spacer to keep him from going too deep. Keep your hand squeezed tight and he won't complain because your tight hand will likely make him blow!
0 1 0 0I think it likely sounds more interesting than it is. If he wants a tight hole - get a **** ring. Unless you really want this - I would avoid. Its pretty gross and likely to pull out with fecal matter unless you are cleaning out first.
Yes, its all over p*rn but they prep first and its probably not as great as you would think.0 0 0 0Thank you. I don't think it's tightness that he wants. When we first got together I was actually too tight to take him at all. It took us like 7 or 8 tries to get it in a good amount and even now I can only take him about 80% before it starts to be painful
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