Any other girls try using dildos to adapt to a larger guy?

My girlfriend and I were both virgins. When we first started I did not fit at all, even with oral, her orgasms, and lube. I could fit some but it was quite tight and uncomfortable for both. At the time we were not living in the same place, so she bought dildos between normal and huge. She basically used the normal sized 7 inch long one inch across, switched to the 8 inch 2.5 inch across, and then after a while to the 12 inch long 3 inch across. afterward she could eventually handle everything. She said that mine was way better than the dildos even though I was not as big as the biggest size, which she could not really handle all of anyways. I will not be specific since the main point is have any other girls had to do this to get use to a larger size, or is this some weird thing for us?
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So anybody else have a similar experience or trouble going up to a certain size?
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  • Personally, I haven't but I can see how it would work. I was in a long distance relationship when I was with my first boyfriend so when we started having sex there would be periods of up to two months when we weren't in the same place. I never really masturbated with anything IN me sticking to clitoral stuff when it came to getting myself off, so when I went back to see him after a month's break from having him in me, it could be less than comfortable. It was like starting from scratch every single time and though it wasn't so painful to make sex impossible, there was always a stingy 'I've been stretched' kind of feeling that would persist for a few hours/day and would go away after we'd been together for a week or however long we visited for that time.

    Basically, if you and your girlfriend have found something that works for you and makes sex possible, all power to you. Oh, and I can vouch for her. No matter how big/wide/colorful a dildo is, it will never beat real flesh on flesh contact.

    • Well the width is the same for the largest which is obviously why it wasn't working... the largest one was a little longer, but she probably didn't really use all the length. I'm glad I did not weird everyone out. Now we live together and I feel like she is permanently adapted because even if we are apart for a while it is not as much trouble although there is some noticeable difference. I still feel like using dildos was easier even in person, since she was going from virgin to that width.

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  • Some girls have had to use them to get used to the real deal

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  • Weird. Most chicks adapt just fine.

    • Do most girls go from virgin to closer to the larger dildo size without anything in between though? I think most girls probably have a few partners before they end up with something close to that... or it is not common. I am not sure

    • I've never had any of my female friends describe anything like this to me.

    • I suppose it is a unique situation with us having been in a long distance relationship. We probably would not have done that if we could have seen each other often. Still would like to hear from other girls who might have done something like this. I thought it made more sense than just trying really hard to go from normal to that more gradually.