Are all puas fake and scam artist?

I want to know if all of there guys are fake as I hear. I'm just curious because I see some actually get girls on videos and stuff and I hear people writing good comments about them and all that. If puas are frauds how can I get better if I don't have a mentor to follow on what is correct or not, I can't ask any friends or family. And if anyone can give me something to look up or a book I can use to help with my confidence social skills and how to get girls?
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  • I have been in a PUA bootcamp, and I can say it does not deliver the hottest girls on earth to your bed, but it ain't a psychological business strategy designed to rip off the desperate failures either. I have been in one of those bootcamps in England and I have to say it was worth every last penny of my poor ass money.

    The thing is simple, they push you to the field, analyse your strengths and weakness while you are on the field making contacts, talking to girls on the streets, in the bars, in shopping malls, movie theaters and all kinds of public places. If hot chicks had the human decensy to take the time and effort to boost up a guy from zero to hero, the PUA Schools would be out of business. Girls reject with the weakest ass excuses imaginable, and then use terms like just friends, or only friends. Pay attention to the word ONLY, that on its own says the guy is nothing not even a human being to her. REAL FRIENDS go to the ends of the earth for each other, hot chicks won't even give the guys 10 minute shoulder to cry and lean on unless its to their highest of advantage.

    But anyway as for my results, if girls are put on levels from one to 10, which mean level 10 is the best of the best. Level 7 to 10 kinda girls wouldn't even take second look, unless I would become a millionaire, her access to the big times, her body filled with drugs or alcohol, or any other f***ed up sh*t like that. After the bootcamp, my biggest accomplishments is a date with a level 9, which resulted in her rejection and no contact afterward. Events after that has brought me the balls and enough aprouching skills that they don't see mee as a freak. Rejections have happened but none of the girls afterward let go of the friendship.

    And as for the greatest accomplishment, the only two level 11 girls I know on this planet now consider me as friends and are happy to get their crew together and answer my invites to my shows. So from not being able to get even 15 minutes of one on one hanging out time to a guy that they dare to call me a real friend is my accomplishment with girls beyond perfection.

    This is a very rough and tough road, because if you want a girl who is DAM HOT to become your girlfriend, you have to face the reality, the hardship and the failures, and not just that but keep growing that hunger to succeed. And speaking of failure check out this guy:

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    There are a lot of girls out there that will accept you for only who you are, no need to have the mind of einstein, body of dwayne jhonson, heart of gandhi, soul of hercules, spirit of a stallion, or nature of freedom. If you settle for girls on your level, the best choice is the choice of you heart.

  • PUAs use POSITIVE things like experience and confidence, and combine those with MANIPULATION, in order to get girls to sleep with them. A PUA not only isn't interested in a relationship, they also aren't interested in honesty, or whether or not they hurt the girl's feelings, or any of that. They are strictly looking to get laid (or at least, partway around the bases) as quickly as possible.

    Anyone can learn to manipulate people, just as anyone can learn to have confidence and gain experience, but it's downright dirty and wrong.

    I tried a more subtle version of manipulation a while ago to see if I could really make it work, and it DID work. I was able to manipulate girls without them knowing, even afterward, that I'd done so. But I stopped doing that pretty quickly, because it's simply wrong.

    The experience and confidence is what you need. Once you have that, there are plenty of women willing to have sex without a commitment if you are honest with them about it (it is NOT hard, guys). There's no need to manipulate.

    • OK how did you manipulate them? And how do you just be honest with a girl saying "hey I just want to f*** you and that's why I'm talking to you" please explain I'm curious LOL.

    • I'm purposely NOT disclosing the technique I used; it's very effective, but it's a dirty trick that doesn't need to be exploited. As far as the second part, you use a bit more tact than that. Say "I'm not looking for a relationship or girlfriend, but I'm up for some fun if you are." Granted, many girls will turn you down, but you'd be surprised at how many are up for it, and appreciate being told the truth from the beginning.

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  • 1. Are all puas fake and scam artist? Nope.

    PUA is mainly basic psychological/sociological manipulation it works on some girls and doesn't work on others.

    2. And if anyone can give me something to look up or a book I can use to help with my confidence social skills and how to get girls? Get girls with The Complete A**hole's Guide To Handling Chicks...I've flipped it and it's tactics work on either gender as it's basic manipulation.

    Improve your self-esteem with self therapy and self development.

    Though communication/conversation/social skills, a social circle, confidence, healthy self esteem, interesting life experiences, and taking care of your physical appearance would probably serve you better than luring girls into a false sense of security with time constraints and backhandedly insulting girls to lower their self esteem so they are more open to you.

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  • Those videos are advertisements for a product, and are to be treated as such. I won't call them outright fakes, but you can learn the same with a few honest friends and some hard work.

    Most importantly, you can't buy what you're looking for; you have to learn it. Learn how to look, how to sound, how to walk and talk. Learn the hard way, through trial and error. That's what the honest friends are for, to evaluate and correct your mistakes.

    It is MANDATORY that some of these friends be women, otherwise you'll wind up in one of those weird, macho, bro-dude circle jerks. And this has to be a girl who wants you to get laid; a woman that prefers you sexless and frustrated is very bad news.

    No books, no tips, just hard work. It's how we all learn.

  • Nah puas hook up with tons of low quality women (which is what negging and all those other ridiculous tactics get you). The only relationship advice I've really followed is stuff by Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks. Their materials about inspiring true confidence and attracting great women through yourself and your personality, not a false, manipulative blanket that helps you hook up with insecure girls.

    But personally I think the whole concept of pua is ridiculous.

  • PUA isn't really a scam it just gives you more confidence and you learn how to manipulate people psychologically a little bit more. I had to write a 10 page essay on it for Psych 101 at school it was actually very interesting. Our teacher had us read some raunchy stuff lol like this link

  • ok I am not a PUA but I read the book the game and I will tel you that even with my weding ring on and my wife next to me and intrudicing both of us I was able to number close a lot of women and even had one try to kiss me right in front of my wife lol she thought it was funny because she and my buddy both read the book then we all went out to see it in action lol fun times and I am a very fat guy and not a hunk my no means. it is all about getting the person who is trying to use the stuff to get confidence in themselves and any women will tell you confidance is key. so yes PUA's are real and even tho some may be fake mystery and style are real and the best check out the book the game and it will change your life even if your a stud that pulls a lot of ass it will help. even openers help just to break the tention like one I used is a question " who do you think is the better actor in the movie faceoff travolta or cage?" instanly gets women talking to you and you don't come off as hitting on them. so non-agressive approch and not cocky. then follow up with the DHV's and NEGS works trust me