Are all virgins tight?

So I was reading a question about guys saying that they were disappointed by a girls loose vagina. I really need to get off of GAG because now I have a new worry. I'm a virgin and I've never been penetrated by anything but I'm worried that I'll end up being loose. A loose virgin! Is there a way to tell if you're loose by examining? When I look down there with a mirror I can't even see the hole. Does that mean I'm tight?
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  • There's a lot of confusion about this for some reason.

    The vagina is a tube of elastic tissue and sphincter-type muscles (that "grip"), but at the opening, there is some extra, elastic tissue that closes the entrance down to a smaller hole. That's the hymen or "cherry". The hymen doesn't completely close off the entrance, as some girls imagin; for nearly all women, there's a hole in it that's much smaller than the diameter of the vagina itself that allows small things (fingers, tampons, blood, discharge) in and out..

    For a rough idea, imagine the vagina is a cardboard toilet-paper tube. If you took a piece of rubber (a piece of balloon or a dental dam) and stretched it over the hole on one end. If you made a dime-sized hole in the center, smaller objects could get in and out, and slightly bigger objects would stretch the rubber. If an even bigger object (a penis, dildo, hair brush handle, etc.) was forced in, the rubber would tear until the object would go in. And that's exactly what usually happens when a girl loses her virginity: the hymen tears in several places until it's no longer impeding objects from entering.

    If your hymen is still intact, you might, say, be able to fit one finger inside without discomfort, but two will probably stretch your hymen and hurt some. Many girls think this makes them "tight", but you're measuring the size of the hole in the hymen, not the size of the vagina, which will be larger. After you lose your virginity (or tear your hymen some other way), only then can you have a good idea of the size/tightness of the vagina itself.

    Typically, a non-virgin girl, when aroused, can take 2 fingers without much work or discomfort. Three usually requires a bit of stretching or it will hurt a bit at first, and 4 has to be worked up to a bit, with gradual stretching before it will fit comfortably. This likely describes 90+% of women, and these women would all be reasonably tight, with an occasional girl being a little smaller than average, which will make her especially "tight" to a guy.

    Women who are loose are actually pretty rare (remember: it's a tube of muscles, and muscles can tighten around things), and usually it's because of trauma, such as multiple or difficult childbirth, or by routinely putting large objects in there (fists, bottles, huge dildos, etc.). If you aren't doing that, you likely have no issues. A small number of women may just be born with a larger-than average vagina, just as a small number of men are born with a larger-than-average penis, and in that case, there's not much you can do, other than maybe trying to find a guy with matching equipment. Again, though, that's rare, just like very, very few guys have a 10" penis.

    • Further: The Vagina has two pockets. The upper (above the cervix) one (anterior fornix), is 3" long, curving up and around to the bladder. The G-Spot is there. This pocket constricts when arousal and orgasm pushes out the cervix squeezing the penis against the pubic bone. The lower (below the cervix) pocket; the posterior fornix is beside the rectum (last 8" of the large intestine) and can stretch to receive a long and wide penis and constricts from arousal & orgasm like a tightening hand.

    • two pockets? O_o I find that very disturbing for some reason.

  • Excuse me, but why would you not be tight? Why wouldn't he be a pencil d***? I really don't understand why if there is a mismatch between him and her, the fault must be with her.

    you are just right, likely you will be very tight, but if you happen not to be, you make sure you ask him why he is so skinny? :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • you can't get loose as a virgin, you get loose mostly after childbirth if you had really big babies.

  • yes your tight

    but when you do have sex on a regular you will become loose, no way around it.

  • i really don't think that's a concern. if you're worried you can always do kegel exercises lol

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  • I'll give you some insight into the male vocabulary

    "Loose woman" is defense because he most likely has a small d***.

    Vaginas contract and retract. Yes, one can be large than another, but what that dude said is an indication that he's a douche.

  • Unless you shove your fist up there every night I think ull be fine..

  • You really have nothing to worry about if you're a virgin

  • i hope so.

  • Women are born with different sizes just like men are.