Are blowjobs necessary in a relaionship?

OK before all the guys start giving me raised eyebrows, please just answer the question straight up, are blowjobs really important? I mean I know guys just simply love it but what if you are in love and your girlfriend doesn't like that, would you be willing to sacrifice that? after all you can have tons of p***y instead and other positions etc, and can you just substitute it with a blowjob sex toy? I know it can't beat the real deal but still, so guys give in your 2 cents on this.
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i don't expect to be eaten either because I know its not fair so stop giving smart alec-y answers of "how would you feel if you don't get head" I can live without em loll
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  • Yes. Absolutely.

  • No its not a must, as long as the rest of the sexual behavior is enthusiastic !

  • I like it, but if she didn't like doing it, I would feel uncomfortable. No, I don't think it is necessary..

  • my girl never never gives me head. it is like every third monday of the fourth month in the eighth year. but I love her and that is all there is to it. but yes I wish she would do it more. I would be happier I'm not going to lie. no there is no substitution for it. if you want to make him happy just do it. there are probably a lot of things he does to make you happy sexual or non sexual.

  • Well I think it is selfish to deny a guy blowjobs completely. Do you like it when guys go down on you? How would you feel without that? It something fun and sexy for them.

    • Well I can do a handjob, or oil massage etc but no bj, can't say I dnt like to be eaten but I can live without em, plus I dnt like it if a guy eats me and then kisses me with the same mouth, its more of a hygiene thing , so to answer ur question, yea I can live without gettin head, only had it thrice and that too because da guy wanted it without expectin me to give him head, so I was cool with that, and I know its selfish so I've never asked to be eaten ever

  • no its not necessary, I've gotten a bj from my girlfriend and I loved it but she doesn't like it and told me how it messed with her jaw and stuff so I don't make her do it, though if were about to have sex she will suck it alittle as a form of foreplay but I don't expect her to do it long or go all the way like she did that one time

    • Off the record, which anime character in ur dp?

    • Lol ur the 3rd person to ask lol but honestly its just a random anime guy I thought looked cool

  • why not? Ur hoo-ha likes being licked... lol

    • Lol hoo haa

  • well its more about what you would do for him not all about you like if he don't like eating you out he would do it for you even tho he didn't like it. its a big thing in a relasionship to sacrafice something for the other person. it lets him or her know that they will do things they don't like for there lover to make them happy. its a two way street.

  • It sounds like with him you would be willing to give in to no bj's ; although you will not stop giving them. It is phsycologically impossible. If you love it then you will find a way to , "satisfy your man with a blo job; love the one your with.". Get it?

  • I can imagine being in love with someone who, for whatever reason couldn't or didn't like to perform oral.

    However, that fact would likely have some influence on the relationship at one point or another. And if it were to come up before love and commitment were established, the relationship might not get a chance to develop to that point.

    For example: I meet a girl whom I find attractive, smart, funny & compatible in every other respect, but early on, she makes it clear that oral (either direction), anal and pretty much anything other than missionary position vaginal sex was no-go?

    I'm done. There's no point in our seeing each other again.

  • it would be nice, but there only good if she's really into it. there's nothing less of a turn off then unenthusiastic sex.

  • No, it isn't.

    By the way: a blowjob sex toy?!? Now that's weird. I didn't even know those things existed!

    • Lol I found out about this recently as well, its like a vibrator thingy which mimics tongue like movements lmao

  • I wouldn't give up something so amazing just because she says so. That's bullsh*t.

    • You wouldn't give up bjs or the relationship?

    • Relationship? Where are you getting that from? If a girl doesn't want to satisfy my need for blowjobs, she can get the f*** out.

  • Uh, a guy just had a question here where he felt disgusted kissing girls because they've had a penis in their mouth. Maybe you should hook up with him...

    • LOL!!

  • my god yes

  • Well it feels great and to be honest I have had differant woman offer it to me but I stay true to my girl!

  • I think it's important. I have to be completely satisfied sexually and that's part of it as far as I'm concerned. It doesn't have to be every single time but often.

  • Your right why should a girl do something she does not like it's nice just to get p###y. Some people don't even get that so if she does not whant to give you a blowjob why make her, Right?

  • NO it is not nessecary I also dislike giving blowjobs to my boyfriend I haven't mention it but if ur dating a decent guy he'll understand your problem with and if he doesn't he's not worth your time.

  • in some relationships girls give there boyfriend a blowjods and others dont

    i think that if the guy whts his girl to do it and she don't whant to them he should under stand

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