The thing that is important to realize is that nobody is perfect, and even the most secure people still have insecurities. I've noticed that some of my very attractive friends have some of the biggest insecurities! Go figure!
When you realize this, you realize that everyone is insecure about something, whether its their looks, not being loved, being abandoned, etc, it kinda makes it easier since its totally normal.
To answer your question,
A guy who really likes you and is secure in himself will accept you for who you are and your flaws, because he knows he has flaws of his own. So, don't worry about whether or not the guy will overlook your physical flaws or not, just be confident in yourself. That in itself is a naturally attractive quality. My girlfriend is insecure about her breasts being small, but I absolutely love them just the way they are. I'm kinda insecure about some things about my body too,(going bald, have some manboob action going on haha, and weird body hair) but she finds me irresistable nonetheless because I don't let those insecurities make me timid and shy to be who I am.1 0 0 0Hey,some bald guys can be hot
^ its true
haha thanks I know, my girlfriend loves it, bald is beautiful
without getting all serious and deep about love and emotions like these other guys are...
Most guys have that perfect body in their minds that they want their girlfriend to have and they won't accept a girl that doesn't have that body. In my opinion that changes with age/maturing.. when guys become older we start realizing that not all of us can get that perfect sexy bodied girlfriend we've always dreamed of. Some guys reach this point sooner than others. In all honesty I'm turning 19 in a few months and I think I'm just starting to change my standards. But then you find dbags like the guys on jersey shore who will never lower their standards.0 0 0 0
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0 5Only girls worry about all that stuff and compare themselves to other women. I have never told a girl to leave after she got naked. Who would? We don't look that closely because we don't care about those things.We know the girls in the those books,porn, etc have had retouch,implants, nose jobs, lighting, hair bleached and colored. What we want is what you girls want to be close and intimate with someone. Contrary to what women think we do know what a normal woman looks like. If you don't focus on those things we wouldn't notice at all.
0 0 0 0We do accept flaws if we love you, even if we kind of like you.
If we make a pass at you, you have nothing to be insecure about; we've generally made up our minds.
Bonus answer: Your insecurites are a thousand times more unattractive than your worst physical flaws.0 0 0 0Nobody is perfect. Any guy with common sense realizes this.
I did date a girl for three years in high school and she would not take her bra off. She'd be willing to have sex and everything. But she had to keep the bra on because "my nipples look weird!" It really would p*ss me off to be honest.0 1 0 0If I'm really in love with a woman there is nothing I personally find unattractive about her. My dream woman is similar to a playboy model or so I thought. Somehow I fell in love with a woman that has pale skin, A cups, doesn't shave bald, doesn't wear makeup every day, etc... She is still the most beautiful thing to me and it gets me hot just thinking about her : )
You don't have anything to be insecure about if a guy says he loves you and is showing a lot of sexual desire for you because that means he wants what you've got lol. Sure we all have ideals like men dream about large firm breasts and women like thick penises but at the end of the day the person's personality and how they use what they've got matters more than the size of what they've got.0 0 0 0Yes or at least I am.I love my girlfriend and I think she's ridiculously cute (which contrary to belief cute girls can be sexy as f***) and she is curvy,perfect hour glass shape yet petite.She has stretch marks which I never paid attention to until she pointed them out to me one day but she says they are fading away(idk) and she has full breasts and they do sag,they even point downwards but hey,I love em,they are attached to her and I love playing with them,sucking them,licking them,I still love doggy style even though she has stretch marks apparently and hey,if her breasts sag I hold them up during sex and she's also insecure about her thigh jiggle but that's pretty damn hot during sex.
My point is,if we love the girl,we accept her flaws and accept her as she is.What truly matters is whether we like a girl with clothes on,because if we do,once we love the girl we'll most definitely like her without clothes5 1 0 0Anonymous guy, whoever you are. You made me smile (:
amen
That's just cute :)
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