Are Guys Who Are In Denial About Their Girlfriend Being Pregnant Scared To Be Fathers?

my boyfriend has been distant ever since i found out i was pregnant...he always says its not his...especially when he knows i have been with no one else but him...is he scared to be a father because we are both still young?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • a) all men are scared to be fathers.

    b) all men are scared of child support

    c) the fact that he denies the baby is his, is not a good sign

    d) he doesn't know you've been faithful. the fact that you're pregnant just made his willingness to believe/hope that you've been cheating, go way up

    e) of course the fact that your both young scares him

    look this is how it is. (almost) no one want to be a father without planning it out. the fact your still very young most likely means your relationship won't last and he'll be paying child support for 18 years, which isn't cheap. he'll most likely want a dna test, which sounds cold, but having been framed for a baby that wasn't mine, believe me is his right. after he knows for certain it's his baby it'll most likely settle in and hopefully he'll come around. hope it works out.

    • Thanks that really helped alot! and yes he has asked for a DNA test and I agreed. but also he likes to party almost everyday...and yes he is the insecure type so I get accused of everyone in sight! I left him for now just until I have the baby. so its less stress on me! but I'm really curious on what really goes through guys heads when they find out they are going to be dads.

    • this guy got it down.

  • Unless a guy tells you they want to be the father of your children, they don't want to have kids with you. Now he is stuck being a part of your life forever, and you will be able to use the child as a way to have power over him for the rest of his life. If you didn't want power over him, then you would not expect him to do anything as a father, without first asking him if he wanted to be a father. Sounds like he has reason to be afraid.

    Also no man knows that he girlfriend has been faithful.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Seems like you already have an inkling as to why he is behaving the way he is...

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  • And you're with him because...? o.o

    • i don't know? hoping he will change...and so far he's made a HUGE change ((:

    • Oh OK, well as long as you're happy and he's making an improvement, then that's always a good thing. Good luck!c:

  • Yes...usually.

  • Grr stop yelling!

    • sorry cap-locks was stuck :/ not yelling!

  • Your caps lock is on.

  • Indeed, those things happen. Some guys run away from responsibilities.

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  • Indeed, those things happen.

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  • I think it's something quite common for first time fathers actually.

  • Erm, why are you typing in all caps?