Are handjobs pointless?

Like men/guys can do that to themselve half of the time :P What do you think?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Very different. For one it's impossible to give yourself one correctly next your thumbs are in the wrong place, and they're the main part. Second the feeling of touching yourself and someone else touching you is completely different. For example you can't tickle yourself. Also if you run your own stomach you won't feel anything, but if your boyfriend were to caress your stomach, legs or any other similar spots you will get a tingling feeling. Same with a hand job. The girls hand feels very different than your own

  • Never, guys do masturbate themselves a lot, but it never beats having a very special lady offering to handle it to. Plus it can make the orgasms a heck of a lot better I find :-D

Most Helpful Girls

  • one of my guy friends gave me this advice: guys have figured out what they really like by doing it themselves and no chick can do it as good.

    I'm sure it may be good since it is a girl doing it instead of themselves...hah I try and skip it if possible, or try and get creative so I'm not sitting there like 'eff this my arm hurts and I'm bored...' lol

  • Nah, my boyfriend loves handjobs, lol. Of course he can do it better himself technically, but the turn on of having someone you're attracted to doing it for you can't be beat.

  • My boyfriend likes it better when I do it, he says it gets him off faster, and he's more aroused when I do it. I think it's a mental thing.

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  • Not really. There is something to be said about being "pleased" by someone else.

  • Not pointless. Its always better then nothing and its always better when you aren't doing it alone.

  • I hear most guys prefer their penis in your mouth or hotpocket -- some place dark, warm and wet. Though if you lube up your hands as your handjobing them they start to dream about it.

    • LOL "hotpocket"

    • Hotpocket, fantastic euphamis :-)

    • I know some girls who call theirs "hotpocket". There's also soft taco, pink taco, muff salad, money maker... list goes on and on.

  • No. Its fun when a girl does it, because she does it her own way.

  • I can feel my own tongue in my mouth all of the time, but it doesn't mean I think French kissing is pointless.

  • The enjoyment goes up 1000 fold. That's why guys sit on their hands imagining it's someone else doing it. Not pointless at all, it's incredibly sexy. :)

  • They are only pointless when she doesn't know what she is.doing. being too rough with him, not understanding rythm and pace, or not comitting to finish. Always hot, but not always effective...

    • go away you decliner

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  • it still feels good even if you can't do it as well as the guy. it's near the bottom of the list of things I enjoy though

  • I think it is great for your muscles

    https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=852b6TARpHg
  • handjobs are not pointless, especially when done right.

  • No. I love the female hand.

  • Not at all. Coming by a girl's hand is always a pleasure, even when intercourse and oral are on the menu.

  • Just because I can give myself head (I really can), doesn't mean I don't want a bj from a girl

  • That a girl would be willing to subject herself to something like that and do some of the work herself is very appealing to a lot of men, who get frustrated with the societal notion that men have to do all the work all the time.

  • Nope, it's still enjoyable to me. Sure I can masturbate but a handjob involves a girl, so... awesome :P I also like being able to just lie back and not do anything, or kiss her during it.