Are most guys turned off by blood during sex?

My hymen isn't all the way broken yet and I'm having sex with a guy with a thick penis. So whenever he tries to go in deeper, I'll bleed. When he sees it, it's like he semi-freaks out and stops to clean up lol. That's understandable...it is blood. But how are we ever going to get past the breaking point if he stops when he notices the blood? Do most guys feel like this?
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  • Different people have different responses to blood, so it's hard to say whether it's a general turn off. Some guys faint when they get their blood drawn for medical reasons. Personally, as long as I know to expect it, it doesn't bother me. For example, with period sex, if I'm not expecting it, and I pull my d*** out to find it covered in blood, I'll freak out a little, but only because I'm worried that I've in some way hurt the person I'm with, or caused some sort of internal damage.

    In this case I would a) make sure sex is in a place where you don't have to worry about stopping to clean up- perhaps in the shower, or with towels underneath- and, b) frame it to him in a sexy way. Tell him you need him to be the one who truly fills you, who fully makes you a woman (or some bs like that ;)). It might help him get over it.

    Also, you might want to check with a doctor and make sure that you aren't bleeding for some other reason. Obviously I've never had a hymen, nor have I ever broken one, but it seems odd that there would continue to be bleeding every time you have sex.

  • yes.

    blood is associated with injury/pain/danger. this is a natural response to seeing blood...it is supposed to stay inside you.

    try to work on yourself some so that you can fit him better & easier.

    it messed with me when a girlfriend had this happen. I pull out and notice it and am in a bit of panic & slightly grossed out. was afraid I had hurt her or possibly myself.

    there is no crime scene sex for me and luckily none of the girls I've been with wanted to do it then either.

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  • I can see where it might freak him out. It will get better with time. I hope both of you are using protection with the blood. Try using some lube. I love it and it and it can certainly help.

  • Do it in the dark! :D

  • Hmm, well you may have to wait until it does. There a thing you can do. You can employ a sponge

    for that. It's a tampon like sponge you can find at pharmacies.

  • Nope, it's just blood.

  • Do you ever masturbate? Lol

    • Not by fingering myself. I just rub my clit

    • I think you should try masturbating with a toy or something, that way he doesn't have to experience the blood himself and ruin it.