Different people have different responses to blood, so it's hard to say whether it's a general turn off. Some guys faint when they get their blood drawn for medical reasons. Personally, as long as I know to expect it, it doesn't bother me. For example, with period sex, if I'm not expecting it, and I pull my d*** out to find it covered in blood, I'll freak out a little, but only because I'm worried that I've in some way hurt the person I'm with, or caused some sort of internal damage.
In this case I would a) make sure sex is in a place where you don't have to worry about stopping to clean up- perhaps in the shower, or with towels underneath- and, b) frame it to him in a sexy way. Tell him you need him to be the one who truly fills you, who fully makes you a woman (or some bs like that ;)). It might help him get over it.
Also, you might want to check with a doctor and make sure that you aren't bleeding for some other reason. Obviously I've never had a hymen, nor have I ever broken one, but it seems odd that there would continue to be bleeding every time you have sex.0 0 0 0yes.
blood is associated with injury/pain/danger. this is a natural response to seeing blood...it is supposed to stay inside you.
try to work on yourself some so that you can fit him better & easier.
it messed with me when a girlfriend had this happen. I pull out and notice it and am in a bit of panic & slightly grossed out. was afraid I had hurt her or possibly myself.
there is no crime scene sex for me and luckily none of the girls I've been with wanted to do it then either.0 0 0 0
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0 5I can see where it might freak him out. It will get better with time. I hope both of you are using protection with the blood. Try using some lube. I love it and it and it can certainly help.
0 0 0 0Do it in the dark! :D
0 0 0 0Hmm, well you may have to wait until it does. There a thing you can do. You can employ a sponge
for that. It's a tampon like sponge you can find at pharmacies.0 0 0 0Nope, it's just blood.
0 0 0 0Do you ever masturbate? Lol
0 0 0 0Not by fingering myself. I just rub my clit
I think you should try masturbating with a toy or something, that way he doesn't have to experience the blood himself and ruin it.
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