Are non virgins someone's else leftovers?

are non virgins someone's else leftovers?
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and would you date them or even marry a non virgin?
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  • women aren't objects so they shouldn't be viewed as leftovers. I don't really care how many guys my girl has been with as long as she is committed to me. as a rule of thumb don't ask a personal question unless you are prepared for an answer you may not like. such as asking how good you were compared to past boy friends, you may get shocked and hurt to learn that you infact werent the best she has ever had. its fine live with it, but I never ask because I'm fine without knowing. all that matters to me when I'm with a girl is she is into me and no one else and I'm hers and I'm her one and only. nothing else should matter, the past is the past and don't hang it over someones head and make them suffer. no definitely not leftovers because the first time SUCKED!

    • thanks...what a great answer

    • Indeed +5 !

  • No, they're just people, same as virgins. They're not any less than virgins, and definitely NOT someone's leftovers.

    • RE: Update Absolutely. That doesn't even really come into my decision-making process about whether or not I'd date you. I just accept you, whatever your experience level.

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  • No. People are not objects, and someone's sexual experience does not take away from their value as a person.

    Calling someone "someone else's leftovers" is suggesting that you belonged to the person you lost your virginity to, they took a "bite", and then tossed you aside because there there was something wrong with you that made them not want to continue "eating". And because of that, you are now less valuable/desirable. You were valuable, but the person you lost your virginity to took something very important away from you and now you're less of a person than you were before.

    Virginity is not what makes someone valuable. People are valuable because of who they are, not because they have or haven't had sex before.

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  • Why would you even say that - yes I am a virgin but I don't think any less of non virgins - I know I am not a guy but who cares and there are plenty of guys who will fall in love with a non virgin just don't worry about it - find someone who respects you!

  • some people think so. I dont. I'm promiscuous though and sex isn't a death sentence in its own right for me, so I see things differently. I see people enjoying their sexuality and it makes me happy.

    • thats great :)

    • will you be honest with future bfs about your sexual history or do you feel you have to lie about it

    • It isn't a death sentence until some moron gets you pregnant or you end up with an STD.

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  • Only if you succumbed to being objectified. (IE, throwing yourself at the most popular guy at school because of his status and looks, then you would "objectified", worthy of being considered leftovers)

    If you had sex with a Boyfriend who you had intense feelings for, you did it because it felt right and it was a mutual thing. You wouldn't be "leftovers" just as much as he wouldn't be "leftovers".

    • *Then you would be objectified

    • thanks :) would you date a non virgin?

    • Yes. I married a non-virgin. When you find someone to love, little stuff like this hardly even matters.

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  • i used to think so but then I feel in love so it don't madder the best thing you can do is get to know someone rilly good befor f***ing them then that way you don't get passed around it would be awsome if you only f***ed one person your whole life but sh*t happens if my wife only f***ed me I wouldn't have my step children so I'm greatful of those other guys but yes it sucks that they hade to f*** my wife but what can you do this world only gets worse and worse the only thing we can do is try to make it better

  • No.

  • Update: Sure, why wouldn't I

  • not leftovers but definitely more baggage

    • more thinks to try not to think about like did she take it in the ass how many d***s she sucked how many loads of come did she swallow has she had come on her face all things women do that if done with other men make them extremely undesierable to me

    • what do you mean by more baggage? hahahaha

    • like more stuff that's not desireable, like all the things I mentioned above, lingering insecurities from previous relationship, lingering emotions as well just knowing that the women you may marry sucked other mens d***s and did the before mentiond stuff makes me feel less inclined to commit to her especially have children if I have to give up being single it better be for a damn good reason not just a girl that's been dating since she was 15 never been single longer then a year since then

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  • Its a harsh way of putting it and very rude. I don't regard these women as nlany less human but I would see a non virgin as incompatible and not a woman id want to date. Same way I see women that want 3 kids and a dog. Man I hate dogs. Or smokers.

    But it isn't a religioua thing to me, because there is no God.

  • Yes. date but never marry. who'd want to think about an easy girl's past forever.

  • I'm the guy always posting about this sort of stuff (virginity in women, dying alone due to possibly unrealistic standards, etc.)

    While I'd never date or marry a woman that isn't a virgin, I wouldn't say they are someone else's sloppy seconds. I would say that if they believe sex before marriage is wrong, and do it anyways, that they don't have much self control.

  • not in my opinion.i'm christian but I still f**k a lot ;)

    • lol

    • You're not really very Christian then -_-