Guys, Are sagging breasts a turn off/ deal breaker?

Question

Larger breasts tend to be heavier and therefore sag somewhat. Is this a deal breaker for you? :/

Stevieee · Accepted Answer

Hell no! :) aside from the fact that any guy who considers such a trivial and perfectly natural physical detail a reason not to pursue a relationship with you is a tiny brained fool best filed under L for Lucky Escape, the underlying assumption that a bit of sagging is unattractive is fundamentally wrong, from the perspective of most guys who encounter their women in the real world rather then via Google with only an industrial sized box of kleenex for company.

A few facts... 1) real breasts are not supposed to be gravity proof - they often don't even start out that way and those that do never stay that way.

2) larger breasts will always tend to 'hang' to some extent - the fact that they don't miraculously defy gravity absolutely does not mean they're saggy.

3) women pretty much always judge themselves far too harshly in this regard - however saggy you think you are, divide that by 3 and you'll be closer to reality!

4) in the majority of cases, slight to moderate sagging is not only okay - it is positively part of the attraction. Without a bit of gravity-based reality boobs look fake, and fake boobs are as sexy as a full beard to most right-minded guys.

Bottom line - I'm sure you're in better shape than you think, and most guys have absolutely no issue with a bit of sagging anyway - it's perfectly natural and perfectly fine, in no way even remotely unattractive. And finally if you're worried about sagging keep in mind that breasts are naturally supported by ligaments and like any ligaments in the body they need to be worked to remain strong - minimise bra time and the weight and movement of the breasts will ensure they don't atrophy and lead to further sagging. But more than anything, stop worrying and be proud of your curves! :)

Knuckles77 · Accepted Answer

I think the older women get the more they sag. It seems like the girls I've been with in my 30's who had bigs brests, that their breasts sagged worse than girls with big brests than when I was younger. Is a deal breaker? For me it's not, and I think the same would be true for most guys. Is it a turn off? To be honest yeah it kinda is if they sag really bad. I wouldn't let on and it's not like I wouldn't have sex because of it, but it's kind of a bummer. It is what it is though, our bodies change, usually not for the better as we get older. Can't really be helped.

gray_sailor · Answer

Not only are saggy boobs NOT a deal breaker, they are actually the very thing I prefer.
I have always prefered saggy boobs.
Sagginess is part of what I like most about bigger boobs to.

I am not alone either in having this preference. There are many men out in the world who are just like me.

Don't see your body as something that needs to be apologized for. Much better to find a man who likes exactly who you are and exactly the body you've got.

1Analyst · Answer

Heck NO ! Boobs are beautiful regardless of ANY shape , size or color. It's only a turn off if it's dilapidated like an OLD , old woman's breast. Normal sag is cool. Honey , LOVE YOUR TWINS !