Are there any ladies out there who DON'T like receiving oral sex?

If so, why? I think it's amazing, but a guy friend recently told me about a girl who would never let him do it because she really didn't like it. So I'm wondering why a girl would NOT like it? Because she finds it gross? Because it really doesn't work? Because she can't get off anyhow, anyways?
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  • Ive yet to be able to get off from oral, partially because I'm self conscious, and I know that he's doing it just to get me off. therefore there's a lot of pressure for me to finish, since I know he's certainly not doing it for his own health, and I end up worrying about that so much I can't enjoy it. so even though it feels amazing, he only does it occasionally, like as part of a 69.

    and since you ask, yes, I do get off from penetration alone, quite frequently. I also get off from deep fingering, as opposed to just clit rubbing. I suppose that makes me "differently built", but my guy doesn't mind that I love sex as much as he does!

  • I had a friend who wouldn't let her boyfriend even try it (this was in hs, they were both virgins) and I could never understand it. She said she was too embarrassed? I love it myself, it gives me a way different orgasm than penetration does and might be the only time I get LOUD during sex. it's like I have no control over my reactions lol. If I don't want it it's probably because I don't want to reciprocate. I always freak out when I give bjs and sometimes it's just not worth it.

  • I don't like to receive. Not because I think it's dirty (it's not, it's a normal part of sexual activity); I'm not uncomfortable with a guy being down there. I just have never felt much, and I have had different partners so I know that it's not just him. I really which that it did to something for me, because all my friends rave about it, but I just haven't ever been even remotely close to coming.

Most Helpful Guys

  • There is two major reason I feel why that lady don't like oral sex (1st) She don't have good figure she might feel her that she is not hot and sexy (2nd) She have a mindset where is think that sex is just a need of body for few seconds not a process of lovemaking to reach satisfaction

  • Sadly there are. I love to give it ... and want my partner to come every way I can. But some find it 'dirty' and others don't equate it to the act of natural sex their catholic upbringing taught them.

    Sad but true.

    John

    The Infotainer

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  • I find it to be awkward. Having a guys face down between my legs. Then I worry about how I may taste or what if there is a smell. I also worry about cumming... I am a gusher.

    • I agree, the feeling of a guy's head between my legs just makes me think about all the horrible things HE might be thinking about! Smell, taste, moister, obligation to keep going. And then there is always the fear of him wanting to kiss me after...

  • i used to NEVER let my boyfriend do it. I always thought it would be gross for him. now I let him but it's not my favorite thing in the whole world. I much prefer the actual sex

  • I can take it or leave it...I prefer giving more so than receiving.

    I just have never gotten off by getting ate out. I also prefer the real thing or fingering...

    • So are you able to get off from penetration alone then during sex (pardon if that's too forward!)? Just curious if women who don't like it are designed differently (since we all vary), that that type of stimulation is less pleasurable?

    • Actually yes, I can get off from the penetration all by itself.

  • I love it! My guy goes slow at first then then he works his tongue faster.. awww.. It feels sooo good.

  • Personally I've never received oral, given once or so but I think of kissing her after and it's makes me near sick.

    • It's actually fine - it doesn't taste like anything, and I don't mind kissing my guy after he gives me oral, at all.

    • Well to late for me now :p thing of the past now :)

    • I kinda get turned on by kissing him after he goes down on me. :P

  • I do not! :) It kind of freaks me out.

  • Doesn't do a darn thing for me. Just kind of a waste of time and irritating. To excite me touch or kiss the inside of my thighs then I may want you to touch it with your tongue, but skip the rest and move on - And I have tried it man times in different situations. Not my thing. I'd rather do it myself and not waste the time. And nothing is wrong with me if that is the next comment,. haha

  • Uhh I like it...sometimes. When he puts effort into it, I like it. When I tell him to do it and he's just doing to shut me up, I don't like it. lol so yea

  • I could never be with a woman who didn't enjoy it. To me it's a normal part of foreplay.

  • I never ever would let anyone do that to me. Not because I wouldn't like that..its just...i am very shy and I know I am ugly down there and everywhere else. :)) yes I find myself ugly and I honestly believe it would be gross for him to put his nose where it doesn't belong...and I think he wouldn't like me anymore. he wouldn't respect me as a person anymore. only as a meatloaf. disgusting meatloaf.

    • Dont think so badly about yourself dear! if a boy is with you, he thinks you're beautiful. and you are beautiful!

    • Have confidence in yourself, the one thing a man should not do is insult a woman; and down their is special as well as beautiful, never let anyone tell you otherwise.

  • I don't like it. It doesn't anything for me..Its too ticklish for me. I rather we skip it and get to the penetration. And yes I have had different partners do it for me and it feels good but I rather skip it. It just feels weird to me. I'm more of a giver than a receiver anyways.

  • I wouldn't want it. It would make me feel uncomfortable. I don't like a lot of attention focused on me.

  • i have no clue why they wouldn't like it. I think that is the best part lol. maybe the guys that had done it to her just didn't know what they were doing and just turned her against it or she could be freakish about germs

  • Well I fake it... my boyfriend LOVES going down on me...but it just doesn't do anything for me... and it even feels weird... but he seems to enjoy it so I let him..

  • id like to try it. But I'm to nervous to let him, so I always say no I don't want to. =/

  • My wife can't always handle it. Sometimes she is just too sensitive/ticklish and can't take the direct stimulation that night. It is really good the nights she can for us at least! Everyone is different.

  • Oral is my favorite and the best way for me to get off. I never get off on penetration.

    Though I have a friend who's freaked out by it cause it's like a "slimey little worm" in her private parts, lmao. Cracks me up.

  • i find oral and anal sex both gross cause people do it for pleasure and not for love , I just get chills when someone says that its okay to put your mouth in the exact place where the other person pees from or when a guys put his penis in that spot, its not clean ,its not romantic either...why oh why do people do it?

    • If sex is enjoyable and romantic because you care so much about them you want to bring them the ultimate form of physical pleasure, why wouldn't oral or anal be romantic if it brings the person you love pleasure? I tend to think giving oral is the ultimate form of selfless love as you're doing it primarily for your partner's pleasure rather than your own... to me, that's very romantic.

    • Why is sex for pleasure wrong?

    • Sex for pleasure is not wrong ,all kinds of sex include pleasure but ,that kind of pleasure is different.

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  • me!

    • Thanks! so why don't you like it?

    • Just makes me feel uncomfortable. I guess it's because I'm self conscious. and also there's nothing much to it. I prefer fingering or just plain old f*****g. lol!

    • Out of curiosity (hope I'm not being too forward), but are you able to get off from penetration alone then during sex?

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