Are virgin girls that HARD to find?

hey I never know if one of my friends is a virgin. until the tell me and burst my opinion about them! I never realized how scarce virgins are getting. i find being a virgin is special I mean women have allot to loose, why not make your virginity the only special(really really special) gift you could give to the one you truly love! kisses and groping and such give it to who ever you please but make that one thing you can only give ONE time to someone special.
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  • It just depends on how old a person is and on their amount of religiousness the majority of the time at times it is because they are ugly and then there is the rare case when a person is looking for a special person to loose it to. But lets be honest its over rated my first time was to some one I thought was special but I was wrong there were no rose petals or magical fireworks. It was after a few times that I realized that what made sex special or magical was when your partner went out of the way for you and actually put in the effort to make you happy.

    • I suppose its different for everyone. I don't specially mean you'll be hearing puccini. Since kid I've seen and went through what sick men do. If you really look at it men don't have much to loose if they rape them or something, worse case scenario for them is to get an STD but in the other hand women loose allot, if we get pregnant we loose a bit of freedom and we start being more mature and you can also get an STD. I'm not a religious person but I do believe in giving it to someone who's worth

    • That's different I used to be like that, and not all men are like that. I had sex and I lost absolutely nothing, but I understand what you're saying I've had a friend who was raped and she was never the same person after wards, but be careful because sex isn't everything it's cracked up to be.

    • Believe me... I know... Thats why I want to give it a sort of importance. but like I said it's different to everyone.

  • 26 year old virgin here, why just because I ve never had a bf... Some of my friends knows and they mock me... I am embaressed about it but I wouldn't do it just to do it I just hope I do it before my 30 s, and no I am not a cold person or ugly just a bit insecure about my body...

  • I don't think they are that hard to find. It is usually because of their personal beliefs or, sadly, if they are too shy / unattractive. But the later is really rare.

    • True..

Most Helpful Guys

  • Early sex is part of the American culture. Watch a few hours of MTV and you will get the idea that superficiality and sexuality go hand in hand, and you become "super cool" for having enormous sums of both.

  • I dunno, I thought there were girl virgins but I've come to realize a lot of the girls I thought were virgins...werent :l

    • that's my problem! and I'm a girl! Knowing this and being a girl makes you think your being a bit old fashion and Stupid... yup. But its what I get for being a bit distracted...

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  • I wouldn't care so much if the girl I'm with isn't a virgin. I'm a virgin myself, but I don't consider myself any more special than guys who aren't. Girls shouldn't either. It's silly.

    • You don't have to consider yourself special. Just know you have something more to give. Of corse to the person you love/ like(I don't know).

  • It is special and do what you think is right. Finding virgins is hard to find, however I don't think most guys are looking for that unless they are pervs. Also would like some expierence and taking that can be a whole lot of commitment issues.

    • wrong

    • whats wrong about it?

  • Meh I'm starting to think it's not all that special. Virgins in general are hard to find. I'm a virgin just in case you think I'm not.

  • Well... after I did a lot of research I think its really rare to find a virgin girl specially a pretty one, I think I have a problem but I just can't love or even date a girl that's not a virgin I just can't, I tried to accept the way the world is now and how things work... but it just didn't work
    I must sound weird and dumb to 99% of the people on the planet for saying this but the way we are living now is wrong, every one wants to fuck and leave fuck and leave fuck and leave LIKE WHY? Whats the point in that your just making the world worse, like can you imagine most girls/boys are losing there virginity at a very young age and they dont even care, people think its normal to have sex with many people but seriously if you use your mind a little... its not normal infact its bad its really bad... like can't you see HIV is becoming more common than before because of YOU people, also having sex with many people will increase the amount of cheating because it teaches people to fuck and leave thats how it is thats how it works right? sometimes I think god made that disease to decrease the amounts of cheating and having sex with many people, If I miraculously find the right girl... then
    all the world won't matter to me as no one will listen anyway, but if I dont... then Ill live alone day after day after day for the rest of my life, at least id be like Jesus right? Virgin for life!!
    Im in serious p p pain...

  • most guys don't care because they just wanna get inside all of a girl's holes anyway so they don't mind having a girlfriend that puts out

  • The idea of "saving yourself for marriage" is an outdated philosophy in todays world outside of heavily religious circles.

    • wrong

    • And your opinion is... Oh you didn't post one...

    • I respect what you say its old but at least save it for someone you actually care about