Are you supposed to feel "something" when you kiss ?

[Anonymous]

I had my first kiss a month ago and it was awful, I felt like nothing. It's felt pointless . I also had slobber a little on my mouth in the end. It freaked me out when his nose was touching my face too. I don't get why people kiss, it wasn't pleasurable nor was it fun. He told me I was a good kisser and he doesn't know that I didn't feel the same.

[Anonymous]

It took me years with a partner before her kisses meant something to me (ironically, she always criticised me for being a "bad kisser", maybe she was right). Even then, when I got it high, it was not every time.

One day I was just preparing for work, and something got into her and she stole a kiss. Maybe the forbidden nature of it added to my excitement. I kept thinking of it for miles later, while driving.

[Lupianwolf]

well did you actually like him?

kissing or sex has got to be better with someone you love rather than someone you don't

[Asker]

Honestly, I had just met him recently and he invited me over to watch a movie.

[Lupianwolf]

probably why then and he might have been a bad kisser

[MissConfused93]

If you don't like him, and it's your first kiss, then it's completely normal to feel this way haha. I felt the same way, and now I love kissing! It'll be different when it's someone you have feelings for.

[DSLexotic]

What you went through is so common! Good male kissers are rare

You have to discover what you like & then teach him. Only kissing girls has been enjoyable for me..