As he orgasms during a blow/handjob, what do I do?

Do I suck harder (like a drink)? Do I grab onto his penis until he's done ejaculating? Do I keep stimulating him (with hands/tongue)? Do I back off and let him shoot his load? What should I do? I remember reading somewhere that if you hold onto it or something the orgasm will feel better or something, is that true? Thanks!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Any guys that I've given a bj/hj to they've always seemed to like me to continue whatever I was doing until they were completely finished. Only one guy asked to let up on the sucking pressure once he started squirting like his d*** head had getting overly sensitive. Usually when a guy cums I like to increase the pressure of sucking on his head or speed up and squeeze a little harder when giving him a hj. I've found that he cums more and much more intense when I keep it up and intensify whatever I'm doing.

    • This is bang on the dot. when we come, you should go faster and harder because it greatly increases the intensity of the orgasim.

    • Nakor: Thanks for confirming what I said. When giving a bj especially, as soon as he starts cumming I always start sucking harder and faster no matter how sensitive his d***head gets or how much he starts shaking, and I keep that up unti he starts getting limp. Afterwards, he always tells me that was the best ever.

  • let the come pour into your mouth and spit it out while your eyes are on him, it'll turn him on 100%. while its in your mouth you would feel it twitching meaning he's about to come which is your sign to suck harder. it'll drive him crazy. give it a try

  • I will usually hold it a little tighter and continue sucking on the head until he has gone completely limp. The sensation for him is like nothing else a guy will experience. Much more intense than with vaginal sex.

Most Helpful Guys

  • if your giving him an hj either put your mouth on tip and take the load or just jerk a little harder (dont squeeze harder) a bj don't really suck any hard since there isn't much sucking really anyways just bob your head as fast an violently you can til he blows down your throat (deepthroat is possible) - amazing

  • hi, I like a girl to slow her mouth down on the head of my penis as I'm coming in her mouth,and then slowly and gently suck the end of my **** for a minute as my **** is real sensitive when I'm coming, but I guess this is different for each guy, hope this helps danx

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  • Whatever you are doing to get him to orgasm, simply do not stop until he's finished. I'm sure you will know when he's finished.

  • When he's about to orgasm increase the stimulation and don't stop (what ever method your using) after he's doing orgasming SLOWLY slow down but say firm, until he's hit bottom.

    -Deathecutioner

  • A lot of guys prefer to have you keep it in your mouth as he ejaculates. but let up on the pressure because it becomes very sensitive during and after orgasm.

  • I usually keep stimulating with hands/mouth until he begins to relax again.

  • if you let go or stop during his orgasm it may be frustrating to him. I call that a halfgasm lol. for his pleasure let him finish with your mouth or hand on him and show him you enjoy pleasing him.