Being a virgin, at any age

There's so many questions about "Is being a virgin at age __ bad?" Virginity is a relative term, some believe in it, some don't. Some believe it comes with conditions. No one exactly knows the 'correct' term of virginity.

Being a virgin, at any age.

If you're like me, and you believe being a virgin is where it is penis into vagina (or the ass), then you should know a few things. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin at whatever age, whether you're 16, 21, 25 or even 34. You don't even need to be religious to stay a virgin until you get married, fall in love, what have you. You should be proud you're a virgin, for some losing it was amazing, for others...not so much.

Being a virgin, at any age

There are many virgins (obviously), and some may even be way older than you! On Oct 5, 2010, Britian celebrated their oldest virgins birthday, which was 107 years old. They all find sex to be unimportant, or just don't care for it at all. https://www.thefrisky.com/2013-03-27/8-of-the-oldest-virgins-in-the-world/ Virginity is only something you can decide to have or 'get rid of.' If it was something forcibly taken from you, i.e. rape or something like it, or even if you regret it, you can be a "born again virgin."

Being a virgin at whatever age you are does not and should not matter to anyone except you. I, for example, am 16 and a virgin, never done anything except make out with a few guys, (3 to be exact, I was dating 2 of the 3, and not at the same time.) I am not going to wait till marriage but I am going to wait until I am with someone I love and trust. Everyone has their own veiws on virginity.

You can't let other people make you feel insuperior or weird for being a virgin. You gotta do what you want, as long as it doesn't endanger you or someone else. Just be you. :)

Sources: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1317790/Britains-oldest-virgin-Clara-Meadmore-celebrates-107th-birthday.html

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Virgin here go ahead and laugh I honestly
    Don't care anymore. Its socially exceptable when a girl or women is a virgin but pathetic when it comes to a guy. Of course I'm always told to pay a hooker but never

    • Here people tell women to pay for sex. Must be nice being female.

    • 36 y. o virgin waiting for my "unicorn."

    • I meant this for males and females

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Ugh that zipper vagina makes my vagina hurt 😖

    Good take, though. And I had no idea there was a 107 year old virgin on this earth. Dang.

    • same and thanks me either lol

    • 107 year old virgin? that sounds horrible lol

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  • I recently lost my virginity with someone at age 27... I don't to get into details about how it all happen but it honestly felt really good losing it, though, it wasn't how I really wanted it or expect it to be... It wasn't with someone I truly love and care.

  • Nice take but that zipper picture scarred me kind of lol

    • That scared me too lol 😱

  • I mostly agree with this. Though personally my wife was a virgin when we met. (She isn't anymore ;) ) I wasn't a virgin. I felt unbelievably guilty about it because she was willing to give that to me and I couldn't in return. I think men prefer virgins for the whole emotional and sensitively passionate experience. Personally, I'd prefer somebody who knows what they want when they want it and how to ask for it. Though is no shame in being a virgin in high school guys are pressured by their peers to lose it ASAP. Girls, well I don't know what goes on in the girls bathroom but I'd imagine it's similar. Either way, society pressures both genders to lose it. I get the point of what you're saying "Dont be ashamed of being pure" or something of the like. However I can't help but notice you didn't talk about a guys perspective. I would to do another from a guys perspective. If you'd like you can look at my takes and I can write it. Whether you would take that offer or not is your own choosing of course. No matter what you do I would to see that take be made by someone. Doesn't really matter who.

    • I hate spelling. I can help write it. -_-"

    • Please ignore my spelling boo boos. I'm running on very low sleep today.

    • I meant it for girls or guys.

  • I completely agree with you. People are so ashamed to say they are a virgin in today's society. I am actually jealous of the those who say they haven't lost it yet.

  • hooray! i finally found someone who has similar thoughts on virginity that i do!