Best position for first time sex?

My boyfriend and I are close to having sex for the first time and I am terrified of it hurting. I want to do it, and I really want him to be the first guy (and possibly the last) that I do it with. But yeah, i have a really low pain threshold so...
which position should we use? (he has already done it once in the past with another girl).

And also, if you have other tips, please name them! I'd be very grateful.

missionary - but you control him and give him "orders".
Vote A
girl on top - so you can lower yourself on him at your pace.
Vote B
from the back - why?
Vote C
other - please comment!
Vote D
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  • Girl on top will definitely allow you to control the speed and intensity.

  • The knight girl position

    • What is that position?

    • Like when u ride a horse 🐎

    • I think u called it cowgirl

  • You should be extremely turned on so it hurts less

  • Missionary is the best.

  • spooning would be good

  • I'm bisexual and the first time I took a dick was in my ass and in doggystyle. He was 5 inches.

    He didn't use much lube either so if I can take that you should be more than fine in any position.

    • gross

    • @Keylogger o7 glad to be of service! Been grossing people out since 1989 ;)

    • Lol 😂

  • Just go with the flow, missionary is probably the easiest. You have nothing to worry about, sit laid back and let him do all the work.

  • Face down and up.

  • Missionary followed by reverse cow girl.

  • spoon it baby

  • For me, it was "missionary."

  • Go slow, foreplay, use a lot of lube, have fun.

  • missionary and watch it, you would love it.

  • You probably yeah need a man to teach you first

  • Cowgirl, definitely the best sex position

  • anal

  • I prefer to cuddle behind the girl enter her that way

  • Missionary under your control.

  • It's not really the positions that matter so much (at least from my experience anyway) but with missionary he will be able to keep an eye on your expressions. It's more about makeup my sure you're relaxed enough to enjoy it, if you're tense you may experience pain.

    • *making

  • Have you had an orgasm with him yet? It's probably easiest if he gets you turned on and cumming first. Also, how much dick is he working with?

    • Yes. And to me it looks pretty big but then again it's the first one I've seen lol, it must be average though.

    • 'average' ouch. poor guy. lol

    • Okay. Well if you've seen it then that probably means you've at least had the chance to play with it! lol! Has he managed to get you to cum yet?

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