BJ vs HJ?

I'd rather give a blow job rather than a hand job, I just feel that a guy can give himself a hj anytime, and it'd be hard to do it as good as him. Is anyone else like this? any thoughts? how many girls are like this? Guys: what would you rather receive, and why
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A blow job feels great because you get that wet & warm feeling, but it is more a mental turn on because of the act it self with the visual. The physical stimulation isn't all that good.

    For me a hand job typically feels more stimulating because she has better control, more surface area to work with, better ability to vary pressure and technique. Plus it provides better face to face non-verbal communication with each partner able to look at each other, even kiss at the same time. Check out handjobadvice.com link

    I certainly wouldn't want to have to pick one over the other, but if I had to choose, I'd take the hand job.

  • Handjob, very few girls do blowjobs right they end up biting or going to slow and it takes forever, feels awkward too. And I've had handjobs which feel better than blowjobs or sex, so its definitely my favorite, sure you'd think a guy could do it himself, but if a girl does it she can do it differently, stimulate a different part of the penis, frankly I thought blowjobs were a disappointment, that's probably just my opinion of it though...

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  • yea I completely agree with you. I always feel funny giving a hand job. I always feel like it is so juvenile. Blow jobs feel better for the guys anyways. They can give themselves hand jobs anytime they want even when I am not there. I also feel a blow job is more intimate.

    • See my above comment. Check out this website for several short videos on about 15 different styles of handjobs - www.handjobadvice.com

  • Honestly, I do them both but I combine them. Like after a while of having him in my mouth and throat, I give myself a sec..usually stroking him whenever I take him out. And then there's always stroking him while you blow him.

    • That is the best combo because your hand plus your mouth puts a lot of pressure on the guy's d*** and the wetness is also a turn on. I highly recommend this technique - good for you.

  • i agree with you... giving a HJ feels like work, not love...

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  • Yeah, I hate HJ's. They're more tiring, I'm never sure I'm doing it right, and I know they aren't as pleasurable for the guy. BJ's are more pleasurable for him, easier to give, plus no cleanup! :)

    • Don't be so sure that bj's are more pleasurable for the guy - not this one. Besides, a tantalizing slow hj is exquisite - just use one finger and go around the head, the penis hole, right under the head on the shaft - a light touch like that won't make your hand tired and will build the guy up slowly, driving him crazy. He'll be begging for you to do it harder but don't - keep it soft and slow. By the time he comes he'll be insane.

    • In my case, my boyfriend openly states he always prefers a bj, and given the choice, asks for bjs.. if I thought otherwise, I'd be happy to fulfill his request, as I would like it more if I thought HE liked it more.

  • A good girl knows how to combine the two into one wonderful evening or morning or anytime of day it happens really.

  • I totally agree with you and every guy I've been with has been the same. I've been asked for a blowjob hundreds of times. I think I've been asked for a handjob twice. Clearly most prefer the mouth.

  • Ah, I knew id be the only person picking handjob outright. I think it was because people said oh blowjobs are great, all the time, that when I got them I thought, well this was pretty sh*t, ab it overrated tbh

    • That's true its like most guys say any bjs a good bj and that's bs. Theirs been a few times I'm just thinking what the hell is she doing?I appreciate the effort but really that wasn't great at all

    • I agree about preferring a hand job. There's more pressure in a girl's hand and it just feels better to me plus when she squeezes me super hard as I'm coming it feels incredible, much better than a bj.

  • Honestly, I love doing Both!

  • totally agree. giving a hand job is boring and I feel disconnected. I can easily get more into a blow job than a hand job.

  • Can you clone yourself please? Blowjobs.

  • bj preference without a doubt, not something you can mimic on your own