Bleeding during doggy style?

I recently lost my virginity in March. My boyfriend and I did missionary and that was fine, but when we did doggy style, I bled like crazy. The second time we had sex, missionary was fine, but again I bled during doggy style. Although it had been a while since we were last together. What's the deal? My boyfriend is kind of rough so I think that maybe it, but when we do missionary I'm fine. I really like doggy style and I think that maybe my body is just getting used to sex. How long will it be until sex starts to feel good.
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  • You may bleed the first few times (sometimes longer) get him to slow down and teach him that there is a difference between fucking and making love. Use some lube it really works. Rough sex may be fun for the guy but it is not always fun for the girl. He is getting some great orgasms but how about you?

    You need to teach (talk) to him and let him know what feels good for you. It is not all about the guy. Was he a virgin also? How often have you two had sex? Condoms every time I hope?

    • No he was not a virgin. Yes we use condoms. And we have sex like once a month ( we're both busy college students) he did blow down a bit when it started to hurt.

  • Tell him to slow down! You should not be wondering when it's going to feel good.
    My girlfriend likes it rough most times but in certain positions, I make her bleed too.
    You need to find what works for you.

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  • He's probably going too rough/too hard when in doggy, resulting in some bleeding. I'm assuming you're adequately lubricated with some foreplay beforehand?

    It generally doesn't take your body that long at all to 'get used' to sex. &No, I doubt it's from this mythical hymen still being broken in. It's just a layer of tissue, that really generally doesn't bleed that much even the first time.

    • Not sure, I bled a lot during my first time, after doggy.

    • oh okay it could just mean that something about sex from that angle, the one during doggy, is literally rubbing you the wrong way. I'm sure with a bit more time your body will adapt and you'll be enjoying doggy minus the bleeding. :)

  • He is breaking more of your hymen entering you from behind.

  • Perhaps he is too rough. Tell him to back off a bit.

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  • I've been with girls who were recently virgins and with some who weren't virgins for a long time. I think some women are more sensitive to tearing, regardless virginity or lube. Rougher sex could also definitely cause it, virgin or not.

    I would ask, is this something that bothers you, or bothers him? Are you anxious about bleeding and that it might be a turn off to him, or that he might think you're less attractive because of it? If this is the case, you might discuss it with him. Just ask him. Maybe some time after sex, especially a time you bled. "So I want to ask. It seems like maybe I'm sensitive to tearing or bleeding during rougher sex. Are you bothered at all by the blood?"

    I can say, as a guy, bleeding doesn't bother me that much. But some guys are different. For me, as long as it's not period blood, like the thick clotting type, I'm usually okay with bleeding. I know she doesn't have any control over it, and even when I'm on the more gentle side, sometimes it still happens. Neither her or my fault.

    But if it's something that bothers you and you only, and you want to do something about it, you might also still discuss this with him. Let him know that you feel uncomfortable when you bleed, and that you enjoy having sex with him, but to maybe be a little gentler, or to use lube, or something that might mitigate some of the bleeding.

  • Your body is still "breaking in". Normal. My wife was a virgin and she bleed off and on for about 2 months after we started having sex.

  • did u try any differen positions?

    • lol ,,,,,,,

    • No, we just stopped. It's happened twice now and we're both getting frustrated

  • Doggystyle lets him go deeper than most positions so that's why you've only bled in it. If you tell him to be gentler the bleeding should stop or at least decrease