Blowjob and hand holding?

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i was giving this guy who is sort of my f*** buddy a blowjob and during it he reached down and held my hand. I thought it was strange since it's kind of an intimate and affectionate thing to do and we're not in a relationship. does this mean anything or is it nothing?

hisangel · Accepted Answer

It is kind of an intimate act to want to hold someone's hand but a BJ is even more intimate! And not all people who want casual sex like it to be emotionless. He may like sex to feel a little more intimate but unfortunately that may not mean he wants the whole kit and caboodle. He may have just been very overwhelmed and happy in the moment and wanted to feel close to the person making him feel that way. But once that moment is over, he may not want all the things that come with a relationship which is why he just agreed to have sex, not start a relationship and then have sex.

Rachel_Marie_TheGame · Accepted Answer

The same thing has happened a few times with me, with different guys. I don't know if it really means anything as much as the fact that they're really in the moment. I may be wrong, but that what my experience has shown me.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Any time you have your mouth wrapped around some guys penis you are in sort of a relationship.  It may not last long after he dumps a load down your throat, but at the moment its a relationship.

rbutler406 · Accepted Answer

All of the young ladies below are absolutely right.  It sounds like you were doing a great job and he was relishing the moment.  As long as he doesn't act weird afterward, you should be in the clear.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like it's nothing to me, he probably didn't even notice he did it.

Anonymous · Answer

you were giving a FWB head... I don't think your're really "lets be cute and intimate" material

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