I don't think most guys have canned responses based on quality.
I think what you're asking is "how do I know how good the BJ that I just gave was? "
Well, first, most BJs are good to most guys so don't fret over this too much.
Second, don't bother with the "was it good for you? " question because unless he's a jerk he has to answer "yes"
Rather, find out later (not right after the BJ) what he likes most when you suck him. Have him show you where he likes to be touched, how he likes you to use your hand in conjunction with your mouth (you do do that right? That almost always raises the BJ score a full letter grade). Whether he likes his balls or lower or elsewhere to get some attention.
Basically learn and improve over time and don't freak him out immediately following every blowjob with a Q&A session. You'll truly earn the "Blow Job Queen" title soon enough, at least in his eyes.
I've been fortunate to be with girls who have been good at it. Usually I'll tell her "That felt so f**kin' good!" . And then I'll go in for a nice kiss. ;-)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I love it when when my wife sucks me off. Usually BJ's feel awesome.
I don't say anything, because my mouth is busy on her p****. Girl, don't suck on any guy that isn't willing to lick you. It just isn't right. I know lots of guys who love a blow job, but would never put their face in a p****.
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