Boner at the beach = Pervert?

If you see a guy get a boner at the beach, do you pigeon-hole him as a pervert then or what is your reaction?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys get boners, no secret! They get them from being aroused and arousal generally comes from several things with one being looking a us in revealing clothing such as bikini's. Give them a break.

    Just what the hell does a man's age have to do whether he gets a boner or not?

    As girls lets be happy that we don't have similiar reactions when we see a hot guy in a speedo or the like!

  • most guys I know tend to hide it when they have a hard on (how? idk, nor do I really care to). erections aren't always a sign of being turned on, it's simply your body's way of maintaning itself and keeping it in shape, although if your at the beach a good number of the girls will be half naked, it's bound to happen so why bother getting offended, if anything take it as a kind of compliment

  • My reaction: "Wow, that guy must see something he likes. I wonder who gave it to him, oh well." and then go ahead with my tanning. Lol I wouldn't think he was a pervert. Some guys can't help when they get a boner so it wouldn't be a big deal for me to see a guy get a boner at a beach with tons of beautiful girls in bikinis.

    • That happened to me I got a hard on at the beach and a girl walked up to me and said..wow looks like your little buddy is awake and pointed at it..it was actually kinda hot having her point it out..

Most Helpful Guys

  • What I can see as a girls answer is basically this, "If the guy is attractive and I see he has a boner, it's cool. But if she's not attracted to him it's not cool."

    I guess the same can stand true for guys. "If we see a girl in a tiny bikini and she has the body to match it, it's really cool. But, if she's overweight and has junk hanging out all over the place it's not cool at all."

    • Exactly.

  • Mine pokes out my f***ing shorts... A massive wang and a revealing dress sense, LOL. While often coupled, never adviseable. I never go to the beach anymore though.

    My usual reaction would be 'urnghh', unless he's like, staring into the children's pool with a video camera on-hand, LOOOOOOOLLLLLLL.

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  • well, it depends, if its a younger guy then probably not...not unless your already being a creep somehow, however someones 50-70 year old grandpa would definitely be.

    • What makes the difference......? A 50-70 year old getting a "boner" at the beach is really HIGHLY unlikely..are you kidding ? But let me see if I understand you...........that would be unacceptable for anybody. at any age.......but in your mind more acceptable for someone younger ? Based on what criteria would that be more acceptable in your mind 'for "a younger guy" I really love these mindless questions, and even more, the mindless, answers

    • Well, obviously if the guy already looks like a mega creep then he starts coming around you with a boner that's a really akward situation. if its a hot guy than not so much lol

    • I think I see what you mean, so a non-creepy guy does not turn into a creepy pervert just because he gets a boner, right? And Bruce, I think you need to understand that when people label others as creep, they don't do it by logic. It is the sub-conscious that kicks in. Thanks for a good answer Ginger.

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  • I just look away if I notice. and it's kinda natural for guys bodies to work that way. visually they see a hot girl and then yeah...circulatory system works it's way.

  • ummm...i kinda regard him as a loser

  • every time I go to the beach I get one its so embarsing

  • If he is younger no but if he looks like a dad then yes.

    • What is "younger". And when do you start to look like a dad? At 25 years? 30 years?

    • Younger would be like 25 and below but you can usually tell if they are married and have kids because they are usually at the beach with their family. :p

  • Just tuck it in your waist band. Nobody will know.

  • i agree with butterfly :)

  • Just do what I do and bury your crotch in sand. Or even better build a sandcastle

  • lay on your stomatch for a while...it'll go away

  • I ALWAYS pitch a tent at the beach. That's why I go. Why do you go?

  • yehh pervert or really sad and needs some more action... or the girl is reallyyy hot

  • not really. I mean, there are a ton of girls in bikinis running around, it's a common reaction I would think

  • I agree with Ginger..if it was an old dude then yeah I would get creeped out but if he was younger and more around my age then not really id be jealous of the girl who gave it to him haha

    • Oh, that's nice. I feel less scared of popping one now =)

  • Well, now what ? Out to buy yourself a new "Speedo" and go down to the beach at Stocktons Wing,...get a "boner" and watch all of the chicks reaction ? I can just see them piling on you now !

    • Heh, not really :P It's just that I got a huge boner at the beach last summer, and it may happen again.

    • Haps you should divert your eyes elsewhere if you can't handle the ladies?