It depends if you want to let him make the first move. What would help is if you really get close to him, position yourself so you can hit his crotch and stimulate him there. Moaning a little and continue kissing him but with more passion and lust will also help.
He will understand and depending upon the situation how far you want to go,
- You can move your hand inside his pants and start stroking his tool
- He can guide your hand down there
- You can guide his hand inside your panties
- He may make the move and slip his fingers inside to your p***y
You don't have to give a handjob, it is not mandatory. Your guy will not mind if you give one, but I assume it is perfectly all right if you don't give one.
What would be ideal is if you can get real close to him and make him "get off" by just your simulations just on the outside, kissing, hugging, licking etc. He will love it and so will you and you won't need to do the handjob and can keep "your hands clean" off this.0 0 0 0I was kissing a guy that I have known for a long time, not in a relationship 'cause I'm leaving soon, but we hang out all the time and we're friends and very attracted to each other. So anyways we were kissing and he had abn errection, we had been pressing against each other like you said which is fine with me... Then he suddenly put my hand on top of his pants over his crotch... I stopped things cause I did not know if that meant sex. Would he have continued if I had put my hand else where?
I am not sure either if he meant sex or just a handjob. My best guess would be that he was pretty turned on and would like the things to progress, may be to a handjob, or even further to sex. You could have continued making out but not putting your hand on his crotch if you weren't comfortable. If he tried again, you could call it QUIT! Or you could have just teased him there and may have jokingly said "Don't be a bad body, you aren't getting laid any time soon!" or something similar.
I'd be a little bit weirded out if a guy DIDN'T get a boner while you were making out. Just because it's there doesn't necessarily mean you should do anything with it if you're not ready.
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You dont' have to do anything, it's not something he controls, you obviously turn him on very easily which is never a bad thing.
It depends how far you've gone before, what he would want you to do, whether he's pushing it againast you to let you know it's there or if you just noticed it?
If you're not sure then just position yourself so your body is against his and and see how he reacts, it's more than likely he'll feel more comfortable to start rubbing up against you and vice versa...0 0 0 0That's what happens when you make out with guys, lol. He's just turned on, that's all..so good job! You could just position yourself so you're right up against him..or you could tease him with your hand through his pants. If you want to just go for it and finish him off, then you can give him a handjob, sure! :o)
0 1 0 0well you don't have to give him a hand job but you can move you body smartly to stimulate him and yourself kinda... but hey if you wanna give him a hand job let ur hands travel there and give it to him I don't think he would mind really
1 3 0 0at your age boys always have boners. you don't need to do anything if you don't want to. he probably has a boner just from seeing any girl. You're not obligated to give him a handjob, but if you want to, go for it.
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1 2its totally up to you, I'm sure he would be happy either way lol
1 1 0 0it depends on the situation...if it feels right to give him a hj then do it...if not then keep making out
1 1 0 0give him a hand job
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