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Bought new undies. Boyfriend wants pictures

I bought new underwear. Thongs and v strings from VS. This is a step out of my comfort zone as I'm used to more reserved undergarments. I told my boyfriend about my purchases ('cause I have a big mouth and was kind of excited about it :p) and now he wants pictures. I know he wants pictures of me wearing them but I've never sent him dirty pictures and I know that's it's never a good idea so I'm not going to start. He'll see them eventually. I told him I'd model them for him in person, but he's out of state for three more days so he wants pictures. I think he can wait three days and apparently he doesn't. So...would it be lame to send him pictures of them just on my bed? Tell him to use his imagination? Would making him wait just be better?
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  • you DONT have to do anything, KEEP this in mind, but that said, I remember once my girl was infatuated by some sexy lingery and I was out of town, it was fine lingery, fancy, and expensieve :P but since she pointed it out to me in a picture (advertising of the product) I indeed use my imagination and was eager for her to have it, so I was like "I will pay, you take them all" which she did, but then, knowing I would still have to wait to see them kind of honestly wanted a tease at least by cam, so the day she got them we were Skype videochatting, and like you, we had dirty talked in chats but never sent nude pictures nor sex shows, but we were also contemplating it since this particular time was the first we were apart for SO long so I think we both wanted it, and since there was trust, I got naked on cam and requested her a fashion parede, which she was happy to perform for me.

    now key word is TRUST, since indeed it is a BAD idea to have "evidence" of you naked that could be missused latter, and even with trust, my girl and I continued the sexting of both vids and photos BUT now we were carefull, for instance we avoid faces, WE KNOW we are not going to go online and post the pictures or vids, BUT, for instance "our" account was "violated" by her sister (who hates me), and yes there were FACELESS pics of me that luckily she did not get to see (did not have enough time), but had she gotten them a) my face was not on them, and b) could not be traced back to me, I mean, I uploaded them in OUR account, one we specifically created to share documents, why? so there is no chence to make a print of page that shows the photos and has my name as the sender, I mean, even if there was my name in the sender I could say "thats not me" but well :P who would believe it, and yes she could just google nudies and say its me and photoshop my name in the sender but hey, it would be cheap, but you can not be carefull enough.

    this is what I would do in your situation, in mine I went bold because of FULL trust, but lets say you don't trust that much (trust enough since you are considering for real) and you should be carefull anyway, while we don't regret what we did, I would sugest, and I say this because I REALLY want to see HER wearing the lingery NOT just the lingery, IF something would go cathastrophic wrong, he is not going to be shamed half as you if someone got your pics, SO, seems fair, ask him to be the first to send pics of him nude, BUT make it a point to tell him "NO FACE, because mine will be without face too", IF he sends you the pics you send yours, again, faceless AND not of your phone or your FB account or email, you could make it misterious, I once recorded a hot vid and uploaded it to mediafire anonymous and make her treasure hunt for it, if someone randomly gets it, no way it can be traced to me (oh! no names of course)

    think is a funy mysterious way of CAREFULL tease.

    • We've been together for a very long time and I do trust him fully and I know he wouldn't share the pictures. I'm just not into the idea. I have no interest in sending OR receiving dirty pictures. And his trip he's on is only 5 days long and he's all ready half way through it. I think he can survive, don't you? :p

    • the lenght of the trip is key :P yes, sure he can endure

  • You don't sound comfortable with it, so don't do it. Sending non-anonymous nudes is very rarely a good idea...just my honest opinion.

    • My thoughts exactly.

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  • i would tell him to use his imagination and wait. Seeing the real thing in person is always better ;)

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  • I woudl tell him to use his imagination.. the thought of it will drive him crazy, and make it all the more worthwhile for you when he does see it.

  • Don't do anything you're not comfortable doing.

  • Make him wsit, but be playful, not rude

  • I think he can wait

  • You can send sexy pics without your face or anything noticeable in them. Look up thechive.com and check out some of the galleries that women post every day to feel sexy (none of its nude)

  • That's not a bad idea, like "Use your imagination...and maybe soon you'll get to see me in them ;)"

    I love sending dirty pics tho, he'll get super turned on

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