Boyfriend calls me by other girls' names during sex! Urgent help plz

[Anonymous]

I was giving him a BJ and then I paused and he said "don't stop XYZ" I m shocked and he says "oh what happened XYZ?" XYZ is a girl who studies in his college, she is a good friend. But I always felt that they were more than friends. and then he realizes his mistake and apologizes. In the morning he called me by another name... I think I heard the name of a girl he had a crush on last year. Now what? He says he's never had a girlfriend and has never done it with any girl. We are dating since one month.

[Anonymous]

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[liars_paradox]

Yeah, I feel sorry for your guy, but it sounds like that he needs to get his names straight if he wants to continue going out with you.

He's probably not lying about never having a girlfriend before and being a virgin, but I hope that this guy isn't dating you and someone else at the same time.

Maybe he isn't seeing anyone else and it's an honest mistake. He might be thinking about someone else other than you and is why he's getting your name confused. You probably won't ever know for sure, because he probably won't tell you. But, you two have only been dating for a month, so it shouldn't be a big deal.

[cazza3]

Yeah tricky situation. Just because he hasn't had a girlfriend before he doesn't mean he's an angel. A guy calling you by another girls name is never good. It either means that there is something going on with the other girl or that he wishes there were and fantasise about her. A guy or a girl may fantasise about someone else when having sex but no one but them should know. I would have to say I'd sit him down and take a few steps backwards. In a new relationship being called an ex's name can happen, its not nice, but it can easily happen. Your guy though, called you a friends name - twice. There's something very dodgy about that

[cazza3]

You should not react lightly and he should not be laughing about it. Its not a f***ing joke would he like it if you called him another guys name. Tell him how you feel if you're pissed off, angry, upset, annoyed whatever. I can't tell you how to react it should be your own natural reaction.

[ArtyGirl]

The dreaded Freudian slip...

It might represent psychological distractions posed by other girls, irrelevent of their relationship or lack thereof with him.

Or perhaps it's all just far too read into and its an honest tongue twist- if it bothers you, your instinct is obviously telling you something though.

[jeanie721]

Yeah that's tough. I hate to say it, but if he called you by their names that must mean he was thinking out them. It's up to you if you can put it aside and move on from it, or if you want to break it off.

[Deathecutioner]

Bitehis d*** off next time...

I kid..

You can either ignore it and except his apologies, or confront him about it simple as that.

Personaly, I wouldn't put up with that sh*t.

Deathecutioner

[l-hedoniste]

Unless you're willing to break up with him immedately, you'll have to learn to laugh it off for a while. If he doesn't fix it *soon*, however, then he's doing it on purpose; no adult should have self-control that poor.