Boyfriend doesn't like boobs??

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for a whlie now and he has NEVER taken off my shirt. I always have to do it and I have to ask him to take his off too. I know he's self consious about taking his off but why wouldn't he want to take off mine? He's told me before that he is more of an assman but I get the feeling that he doesn't like my boobs because he barely even touches them when my shirt is off. My breasts are an A cup and they're not like super perky but they're decent enough I think. they're not like really saggy or anythiing. The thing is that I WANT him to take off my shirt and do things to my breasts, it's super hot... he just doesn't seem to enjoy doing those things. what should I do to have him take off my shirt and do stuff to my upper body? do you think it's me?

[whisperedrayne]

firstly I would talk to him about it more, express to him that its a turn on for you. secondly he may not be sure what exactly to do with them so maybe take the first step, either caress them yourself to show him or use his hands and show him how and what you like. the only other thing I can suggest is to highlight them, bring them into the forefront of foreplay whether with sexy lingerie, food etc...good luck... Id go nuts if my partner ignored my boobs!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is a butt man also so I told him I enjoy having my breasts touched and started touching them myself so he got the point. Whenever he does touch them I make more noise so he can see the effect. Now he knows to touch them :)

[Anonymous]

I can so relate..my man is an ass man also...I'm a tiny build so my A cup fits too...but I sometimes have to remind him I enjoy it.Try whipped cream or touching yourself and let him know you like it!

[lolli]

a friend of mine said that her beau is the same, an ass man. boobs don't do anything for him. I find it weird, as does she. but maybe you need a breast man. I like those kind better

[l-hedoniste]

My first guess is he's nervous. Ask him to take off your shirt, and see what he does. Bet you it goes fine.

P.S.: Generally, don't guess about guys' feelings; ask. Half the time, we don't even know what we're doing.

[Xakrael]

tell him to suck ur breasts or somthing, tell him how much you will enjoy it, even if he is an arse guy he will still want to pleasure you. he may not know how you feel