Boyfriend doesn't like fingering??

Well he hardly ever does it let alone oral sex... he's done it three times in the last year. If he fingers me its not for very long and he always wipes his fingers on my legs or on my belly. Makes me feel like he doesn't want to be there or something. Could he be grossed out by my fluids or something? Other guys I've been with in the past like it and have put fingering with oral... or after they've fingered me will get me to suck on his fingers. I don't get him :/
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  • Could he be grossed out by my fluids or something?

    Most likely

    Get used to it.

    You've gotten spoiled by getting lucky to find guys who cared about your sexual satisfactions.

    Most guys only care about getting laid & when your satisfaction is taken into consideration it's only to boost his ego.

    • yeh iblow him all the time lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's sounds like he is either inexperienced, immature, or just very selfish (or a combination). That's much more likely than him being gay, though that is also remotely possible. But many straight guys have issues.

    I recommend finding a guy who takes an interest in YOUR sexual pleasure as much as his own.

    • Def not inexperienced. Had two long term relationships before me and been with plenty of other women. He's 26 and good looking. I think he is more or less just selfish. I generally have to do all the work.

    • Then my last sentence really applies: find someone who isn't so damn selfish. And don't be afraid to let him know why.

  • He's selfish that's all it's unlikely that he will change

    So live with it or find someone better as he doesn'r care enough to please you

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  • He's gay.

    • ive asked myself that...truely

  • Get a new boyfriend most guys would like that

  • he'a nervous... take a look at my queston link

  • Shaun is correct.

    • how do you ask your boyfriend if he's gay? lol

    • Ask him if he thinks that random guy on the street is fit. And I actually think he's disgusted by your lovleh, lovleh fluids. Dump him already. Lol.

    • no wonder we never have sex lol he always wakes up with a hard on I started givin him a blowy and then f***in him the other morning and he went soft we haven't had sex since =( It never used to be like this... I've started going to the gym too to try and lose some weight and get fit to look better.

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