Boyfriend gets an erection just from holding hands?

He gets embarrassed by it too. It's not like he's a teenager , he's 24 and well experienced. We'd just be sitting on a bus holding hands, he'll put his arms around me, and he's already oozing pre-cum. I was wondering, is this normal/average for someone that age? He said he never used to get erections this easily. I don't have a problem with it, but it seems to make him feel embarrassed.
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  • Be proud! You can turn him on just by holding his hand; I don't know many women that can say that one :P...

    As for it being normal? I don't have a similar situation and I highly doubt many people do. If he keeps getting embarassed of it, you could feed him what therapists call "positive reinforcement" (if you're comfortable with doing so, read on) -> After he pops one and is all turned on, grab his hand and take him to the nearest room by yourselves (your room, living room, bathroom, I don't care! You pick :P).. Then get it on. It'll show him that you have no problem with his "situation" and that you have no problem with pleasing that rock hard erection ;)

    In turn his mind will think more positively than he has in the past about this situation, and he'll eventually stop caring about it so much. Or atleast, that's the intended result :P

    ~ ArtistBBoy

  • It's normal. I'm 29 and know from experience. A woman I dated a few years ago could give me an erection just by sitting next to me and talking lol. I usually wasn't thinking about sex when it happened, just wanting to be close to her and feeling excited to be with her.

    • Wow, somebody gave me a down rating for that. It must be troll day today. Oh yeah I forgot every day is troll day on this site.

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  • Well it's all in his mind and also I may say in your body.See..we all have a scent..natural or sintetic .. and for guys visual and scent is a big turn on if it is used properly.It may be your scent,or your skin that turns him on so much in order to get a hard on.Try to talk with him without making him feel embaressed,ask him what makes him get turned on so much about holding hands...and from what he says you can deduce the cause of it.Once found the cause,you'll find the solution.

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  • It might just mean he likes you that much! Haha :)

    But seriously, he might be reading into holding hands too much, he might think that any physical contact will lead to sexual activity. It might also be because he doesn't think he can express how much he enjoys holding hands with you the way he wants to, Tell him to use his words to express how much he likes it.

  • It's normal for any guy who is REALLY into a girl. And I mean really interested in her and loves her or at least finds her extremely attractive. Take it as a complement and let him know you like it if so :P it'll make him feel better too.

  • he likes be with u

    obviously a little bit sensitive

    i mean when he is being with you

    it's totally OK ,

    just give him some times to get used to

  • I thought I was the only one with the pre-cum issue.

  • lool I can relate, I'm 19 an have always been overly sexual... and being very significant downstairs its had to hide especially when sitting down in public places, although women and girls do stare. I also have loads of fetishes though, such as; leggings, nice bums, nice boobs, pantyhose/tights, upskirts.. *sigh*I love females.

  • How do you know he is oozing precum? Is he "spotting"?

    Must be attracted to you. Not exactly normal, but not really a problem and you can have the solution in hand pretty easily when there's nobody around. :-D

    • yeah, sometimes through his jeans as well