Boyfriend prefers hand jobs over blow jobs sometimes?

So sometimes when my boyfriend and I spend the entire day together, we wind up having sex twice. And of course we do foreplay kind of stuff and he likes it when I give him a blow job the first time. But the second time he always wants me to give him a hand job instead. Even sometimes when it's the first time he just wants a hand job. Why?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • It's hard to say, some guys just prefer it. My dude is a big fan of hjs too, so hjs and bjs tend to be split pretty evenly, and even my bjs usually involve some hand action. I think both are fun, so I don't have a problem with however he wants to start things out. Like last night before we had sex, I was rubbing him through his pants for a while, and then under, he wasn't interested in a bj right then, he liked the hands.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • May be related to your talent doing either one. Maybe he likes the sensation of a handjob. Maybe he enjoys the intimacy you guys get with the handjob over the blowjob. That's something he knows more than we'll be able to tell you.

    • No he like rants about my blow job skills I know it's not because I'm bad. I know he likes to stop me mid bj to kiss me a lot.

    • Then he probably enjoys the increased intimacy that you guys get with a handjob over a blowjob if he's stopping to kiss you.

    • I never thought of it that way. He usually is really into kissing me and stuff like that during sex or foreplay.

  • i like very hand intensive bjs

    actually cumming from hands I think is just as good if not better than the mouth but the overall experience of the mouth is better

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  • You need to improve your techniques. Check out Jack's blowjob Lessons for more tips.

    • Pretty sure I don't need to buy a book to learn how to give blow jobs.

  • B/c it's different & different isn't boring.

  • idk..but I like hjs and I do not care for bjs...we are not all alike...(:

  • Maybe it just happens to be his preference, he probably gets off with way more satisfaction with a handjob.

  • Hjs are amazing! I know I love my dick in her hand and just love her hands on it really controlling me.

  • he probably finds it easier to get off with hj's. maybe a combination of both would have good results though.