Boyfriend's penis kept slipping out..

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin. my boyfriend and I were on the verge of having sex, He was on top..The prob is, his penis kept slipping out every time Wtf? we had to stop because then his penis wasn't even hard anymore.. I asked him what was wrong and why it kept happening he only said "he didn't know"..has this happened to anyone? Every time we started kissing his penis will get hard again..and I asked if he wanted to try again he said another time..and now whenever I ask him when he wanna do it..its like he avoid it..

[Kevin21]

Im guessing he was hard, but got nervous and started to shrink and that's why it kept slipping out. He can be rock hard up to penetration, and then the nerves kick in and he starts going soft as soon as it goes in, so of course it won't work.

Instead of asking him what was wrong (which implies its his fault and he did something wrong) you should've encouraged him that it didn't matter and you would try again later. I think its gona be hard (haha) to try and get him to try again, because his confidence is shot since it didn't work the first time. You've gotta get him to chill out and relax before you try it again, and don't put pressure on him for it to work. Though I find it strange that you gave him oral and he didn't come... has he ever come in front of you? (If it hurts you are doing it wrong). You've just gotta talk about it, that's the only way you're gona get him to try again.

[ThickRick]

You might be bouncing too high. His penis might be small, but that doesn't matter if you have decent control of your body. The sex was probably an embarrassing train wreck. he still gets aroused by you, but would rather avoid terrible sex.

What's with "asking" him if he wants to try again? If you love him, hop on that sh*t and let him know exactly how much he wants it. Grind that sh*t.

[selfishstars]

Sometimes it can happen if his penis is on the smaller side.

On the other hand, it will also happen if he's simply not hard enough. Sometimes guys will have difficulty achieving and maintaining an erection if they're nervous, feeling pressured (i.e. pressure to perform), if there's alcohol involved, or sometimes for seemingly no reason at all. If his penis is only semi-hard, then it will be difficult to put it in and it might slip out a lot.

If he's avoiding doing it again, it might be that he's embarrassed or worried that it might happen again.

[kiakia]

think you shud ease up on the poor guy, it sounds like he's nervous and if you act all p"ssed off your only going to make him feel worse...

[TylerMMA]

Does he have a tiny penis?

[feipan]

Many encouraged him, learn to try again! In their sex life many times needs both tacit understanding and cooperation, the men and women's sexual are never realize slowly familiar. To enjoy! Thus: slowly. Don't hurry ~ ` any other problems I hope and you discuss ~ ~

[Anonymous]

Once he gets it in he should just do small movements back and forth so it doesn't slip out. As he gets used to it he will learn how far he can go without slipping out.

If he continues to have erection problems his/a Dr can give him a sample of Cialis. He should take just a quarter and see what happens. Can always take more. Once he gets his confidence back he shouldn't need it.

[Anonymous]

he has a small penis probably...

[Asker]

lol exactly what I was wondering because that just seems unusual..also when I give him oral sex he don't even come WTF and he also claim it hurts when I do it to him..

[Jager66]

if it hurts your doing it wrong, maybe he's gay lots of gay men date women before they are really aware they are gay, trying to fit in or what ever..